How not to lick the dogIf you don't want to bootlick, you can start from the following aspects:
1. [Avoiding blind actions: Find the right time to express your concern, don't try to please without any clues.] For example, when the other party was criticized by the boss for being in a bad mood, he could subtly hint at the common situation, such as mentioning a good restaurant with a humorous waiter and asking if they wanted to go together. This kind of unintentional action was more likely to arouse good feelings rather than blindly showing concern.
2. [Know your limits]: After expressing good feelings or help to others, you must end it elegantly. Make the other party feel that this is just a simple action, thus arousing the other party's curiosity and wanting to know you better.
3. [Guide the other party to invest]: After helping the other party, you must make the other party aware of your own ability and reliability. You must make yourself vaguely exist in the other party's field of vision, so that the other party will be curious and take the initiative to pay attention to you.
4. ** Reflect your own importance **: Have a certain frequency of interaction, such as " three days of kneeling and licking, two days of disappearing ", to let the other party feel that if they don't take action, they may lose you, and thus recognize your indispensable nature.
5. ** Stick to your own attitude **: Take the initiative to treat love, but this initiative must be valuable and self-management. For example, to maintain self-esteem in love and not to lower yourself too much in order to cater to the other party.
6. Don't put yourself too low: Don't let the other party think that you are good for granted, because people often don't cherish things that are easy to get.
7. Love is a matter between both parties. It shouldn't be just one party giving everything.
8. Stick to the bottom line: You must be clear about your bottom line. Once you touch the bottom line, you must stop pursuing it. You can't keep abandoning your bottom line because you like it. Otherwise, you will become more humble in love.
9. [Overcome your inferiority complex: Don't feel that you have nothing to give to the other party because of your inferiority complex. You can only rely on pleasing him in exchange for feelings.]
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