@ChuYang Hello i just read the chapter where you were explaining about going on an hiatus. I hope you are feeling better. Thanks for the explanations, i was a little confused as to why the author wanted to save people so much, why he had a hero complex etc. And i realize that the root cause is deeper than i thought. I feel from reading the book and your explanation is that you are someone that loves too much, that care too much etc. YOU ARE NOT SUPERMAN. It is not your job to fix others, the world etc. It is actually a little narcissitic to think you have the obligation to save your family. There is that book called "Women who love too much" that illustrate abused women and the psychology behind it. And your character and you love too much. You can lead a horse to the water but not make him drink. Even jesus wasn't loved by everyone, even hated. Not even considered by is own family but more respected by outsiders. The only thing you can do is be there when your loved ones need help, to lead by example. Just remember that you are loved.
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