“A little.”
Kerry told me that she had given her Mom much of my Aunt’s backstory when her Mom told her that she planned on getting together with Mary. So I felt it appropriate to explain to my Aunt in broad strokes Kerry’s and her Mom’s situation, that Kerry’s Mom was a widow and recovering alcoholic and had been completely under the radar with anyone since her husband died six or seven years ago. According to Kerry, Eileen’s last drink was a G-and-T on the day of the funeral and she was an AA regular for a while. I said “whatever you do, do not let her know that you know any of this. I’m just giving you some background. Don’t worry if you have wine or something because she’s okay with it—remember we had wine when they came over on Saturday—but I think it’s something you should know if a friendship develops.”