Do relationships ruin friendship?
Is a lover worth more than a friend since birth?

Do I not matter..?


(Basically a book about relationships me or 'Cyrus' have had. The 'Do relationships ruin friendships' comes later.)
*This is a BL. I am just warning you.
This is FICTION. Some of these happened with the facts changed up. I am a girl so I just changed everything. Homosexuality is accepted in the world I made. Homo phobia is rare in that world*
Please don't hate.

In this Novel i plan it to be base on loved and their misfortune.

Maybe i will mostly based in friendzone and break ups.

I’m more experienced in friendzone because i already experienced it countless times.

I will make short stories every chapter.

I only know a little bit of perspective from girls view but i can still do it.

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I’m only 17 years old and maybe i’m kinda inexperienced in a real relationship.

But this story is maybe mostly based on teens.

I’m a filipino that lives here in America.
So basically english is my second language while i also learned other language like french and spanish.

Please people give me ideas so i can make stories about love.

Also i will maybe put my story here and i will bent and rant for a bit. 

So please don’t get annoyed.

Most people consider many different characteristics when they want or need to establish a relationship.Many people look at the age, height, Color and others even tend to look at the economic status of those particular individuals.Yes these facts can be considered when one wants to start a relationship and most people even get to meet people with the exact characteristics that they are looking for but Before you start investing your time and efforts to getting those particular people I would like to inform you of the following true and yet very Ignored fact.

 "Most True relationships aren't formed basing on physical appearance but rather depend on the person Characteristics"

Most People may disagree with this Fact but their disagreements to this fact doesn't necessarily make it a False fact.Most relationships that are formed basing on the Physical appearance are not very strong and it is easier for people in this relationships to find and get attracted to new individuals with the same characteristics. For one to establish a true Relationship,It is necessary for him/her to find something/Characteristics that uniquely binds him/her to his/her partner and these characteristics always makes couples understand each another to the greatest extent and also creates great ideal of connectivity between that particular couple.

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However as that fact is stated, It uses the words "Most true relationships" Indicating that there is are some relationships that are true and yet formed based on physical appearance. How are these relationships formed?How do they become so true and strong?I want to give you the secrets on how to get to establish such relationships and guide you on how to make them strong and Durable.Now before we dive into the content and further guidance on how to establish such relationships I'd like to inform you of the fact that Most people nowadays do not take into account the People's personality but rather take a look at the Beauty of Individuals and therefore by nature ignore the Fact I previously Quoted.

Now for People who establish relationships basing on the physical characteristics and appearances I would like to first talk on the first thing that one should look at which is Communication. Before explaining further about the content of communication, I would like to give out the following principle "Communication is Key" .The generation has greatly changed due to technology advancement which has brought about what we nowadays call Mobile phones. Almost every Individual nowadays has a Mobile Phone which has firstly given us simplicity in communication but which has also brought about Characters of Shyness.Most people nowadays prefer seduction through Messages, social platforms and perhaps even phone calls. They use these media due to the experience of the fear of confronting the people they admire.It is a good thing because it has surely given people a certain degree of confidence to start relationships.

Now after one has identified someone he/she loves and admires the first and foremost thing is to get a way to communicate with him/her.People use different methods to contact the people they admire.It may be through A mobile number given to you by one of the friends or closest people of the individual you are fond of, through social platforms such as recent greatly used platforms like Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, WeChat, or any other Platform or Personally getting the contact from the individuals themselves.

After you have the means of communication now comes the part of establishing communication between the two of you.Firstly during the first time of communication it is essential to find a suitable time to text the individual.It is essential to think of a time that you believe that the other individual is free from activities and at that particular time is when you can make your first move. This is essential because after you send your first text the earlier the one you texted replies the better it is for you and this also builds more confidence for you and eliminates the thoughts that the one you texted may be ignoring your text or anything of such sort. It is also essential that you start with simple short texts. Now lets take a look at the following short startup conversations. I am also going to use the numbers 1 and 2 to eliminate Gender boundaries.

Conversation A
1:Hi!!!
2:Hi!!!
1:How are you?
2:I'm fine/Fine

Conversation B
1:Hi!!!
2:Hi!!!
1:How are you?
2:I'm fine...How about you?

The two conversations(A and B) are both introduction conversations but they differ in context.It is important to determine interest and neediness when having a conversation at first time. For the conversation A there is interaction but however the individual 2 doesn't show intention and interest of communicating with the individual 1.How does one determine the intention and interest of communication?I will talk about how to determine the intention and interest in a communication next time

After the adverse change in generations traditions and sytems,It has been difficult to establish true Relationships and True love..Learn how to establish true relationships and love in our current generation

You may think this is just gonna be another cliché story about love, its far from it. Toxic relationships aren't always easy to leave, and sometimes we have to see how far we can go before we get pulled back. You go into a relationship thinking it'll be your happy ever after, but it isn't always that easy. 
For a relationship both sides have to work together, if your partner has to hide how they feel because you make everything about you, it's toxic. You have to be there for your partner just like they are always there for you. 
Online relationships hold different meaning. You don't really know them, they give you what they want you to know. I know that seems horrible to say but online relationships are hard to see if they're true or not. You'd never know if they're seeing someone for a casual hook up or cheating on you. 
Then there is the real relationships the ones that come from the heart. Those are the ones you should try save. If it feels like its failing then try see the world from their eyes, understand they'll need you sometimes. You'll need to be their rock just as much as they are yours. Let the, cry on your shoulder, let them be the little spoon and hold them tight. 
This story is gonna make you see your relationship in ways you've never seen before, make you think if what you're doing is right. I wish simply the best for your relationships, welcome to a relationship that was perfect, until simply it was not.

Share your stories, it is safer then holding them in.

Hikaru Akiyama, the heir of the Akiyama family, one of the greatest and most influential families in the world has been enrolled on The Advanced Nurturing Highschool.
An elite school under the government's tutelage that trains its students using the most cutting-edge techniques, in terms of both physique and mentality and whose alumni have left their mark in society since time immemorial.
And if this wasn't enough, Hikaru doesn't seem to have any talent for magic and seems to be a normal human, but how could the heir of the Akiyama not possess any magic?
 Eh..? What did you say?
The First HighSchool had also finished its enrollment quota?
The 1'st year representative is an extremely beautiful woman? She was called Miyuki Shiba?
Eh? A Rental-Girlfriend company is taking over Tokyo!?
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Ickapoo is lonely. But to transcend his solitude, angst and alienation, he must learn to love- both temporal beings and the eternal Divine.
Eric Khoo’s Be with me is a meditation on the vulnerability of being in love. All the characters experience love as an absence in some form, an old shopkeeper for mourns his terminally ill wife, two lesbians who have a short lived romance, an obese security guard who longs for a high flying executive but who knows deep down she lies beyond his reach, and Theresa Chan, who is sealed off from the world by her condition of being both blind and deaf but somehow still manages to give love by teaching at a school for the disabled and performing a lot of charity work. It is implied that in our modern urban setting, alienation is more dominant than fulfilling relationships and connections and at the heart of the urban condition is loneliness and loss. But this seems only half the story as the film is illuminated by the presence of Theresa Chan who is by her condition of being blind and deaf unable to experience love but somehow manages in place to be a giver of love to those less fortunate than her.
	The lesbian romance captures the idea of puppy love and the idea that experimentation with homosexuality is a phase which does not last into adulthood. The two teenagers involved do all the romantic things couples are meant to experience- chatting online, going out on dates, making out, shopping, clubbing and generally enjoying the warmth of each other’s company till Samantha falls in love with a male and starts brushing Jackie off. This of course breaks Jackie’s heart as she was truly and deeply in love with Sam. 
However the film does not end the segment on a note of despair as though Sam breaks Jackie’s heart and Jackie attempts suicide, she is shown surviving the suicide though she kills the love lorn security guard in her suicide attempt, perhaps signaling that her time on earth is not up and there are perhaps greater things in store for her beside doomed lesbian relationships, perhaps she will eventually find love with someone who treasures her more, it might even be a man rather than another teenage girl. 
The fact that she kills the security guard however might be an event of divine punishment for his hubris in seeking and longing after things that are out of his reach such as the high flying executive who would probably be stopped cold in fear at the fact that he is stalking her. It is probably a punishment for stalking and an indication that this is an unhealthy thing to do which will probably end up in some kind of crime on the security guard’s part if he continues his habit of stalking her.
Another novel by Winterson examines the lesbian choice. Winterson’s novel Oranges are not the only fruit celebrates the lesbian choice, but does not seem to be mindful of the consequences this choice has for women. Indeed to Winterson it is the authentic choice. But to become a lesbian is to be alienated many times over, from the church, from society, from one’s family, there is a high price to pay for non-conformity, and it seems that Winterson romanticized the liberating thrill of escaping societal norms without considering the high price to be paid for living outside those societal norms. Indeed in her introduction to the book Jeanette Winterson describes herself as living in poverty and extreme decrepitude. 
	She manages to escape this poverty by writing a bestseller that is semi-autobiographical, but how many lesbians can make the same claim to fame and success? The ugly truth is that for most lesbians, they live in shame and secrecy at the fringes of society without the glamour and fame Jeanette Winterson enjoys. Hence while Jeanette Winterson may have successfully escaped a life of slavery to a man, she has chosen a path that is dangerous and unfulfilling for most others who choose it because of the high amount of rejection one faces from society as a consequence of that choice.
	Indeed, Winterson writes that oranges are not the only fruit, meaning that men are not the only choice, but to me it seems that she has exchanged one form of servility for another. Servility to a man might be demeaning, but servility to a woman risks the loss of one’s reputation and respectability as well as rejection by the whole church and all of society.Indeed Winterson does not seem to realize she has just chosen a different master. Her new master is woman rather than man. 
Escaping servility to a man does not necessarily mean escaping servility when one becomes involved with a woman. Indeed, the fear, loathing and rejection with which most of her female lovers treat her with after being confronted by the church shows that she has chosen servility to females at the price of her name and mental health, which is why she is reduced to working in an asylum. So indeed, Jeannette Winterson’s novel does come across as highly political and polemical, but it is also blind to the fact that the alternative she chooses might not be as glamorous as it seems.
Hence Winterson’s novel may be viewed as a diatribe against the hypocrisy of the Christian faith which endorses heterosexual love while profaning homosexual love when heterosexual marriage in Jeannette Winterson’s novel is depicted as something of a sham. Her adoptive parents barely love each other, and the women in the novel are all complaining of the trap that marriage has lulled them into, leading them to marry drunkards and gamblers. At the same time one wonders if Jeannette Winterson, being led by her lesbian politics, has depicted heterosexual marriages fairly. To be sure, not all heterosexual marriages are as dysfunctional as the ones she describes. There are genuinely loving heterosexual families, and men who do not seem to be merely beasts or simply desire sex objects and slaves in their households, yet all this seems glossed over by Winterson in her desire to glorify the lesbian choice.
Jeanette Winterson thus seems to be writing with the political purpose of creating a lesbian utopia, a utopia in which all the men as beasts are expelled from the paradise of women living together with authentic passions. But indeed again, one would highly question if only lesbian passion is authentic passion. To be sure, the high amount of rejection each clandestine lesbian relation ends with ends up with a highly dystopian form of love instead. Winterson’s utopia of lesbian love might be ideal in her eyes, but cannot come into fruition as long as most of society is heterosexual and heteronormative. 
Indeed, Winterson has accurately observed that it is religions like Christianity which uphold the heterosexual norm and oppress the lesbian alternative. But Winterson does not seem to dwell on the consequences for choosing the lesbian alternative, shame, secrecy, rejection, God’s wrath, madness and so on. Living on the fringes of society might be extremely romantic to Winterson, but not all women are willing to pay that price.
Having said that, Winterson has indeed written a compelling critique of the heterosexual norm in societies and the religious orthodoxy that reinforces it. The hollowness of orthodox marriages in the novel in contrast to the fiery passions she finds in the arms of women seems to reinforce the idea that homosexual love is more authentic than heterosexual love. It is also true that because of Biblical scripture, women in heterosexual marriages experience a high degree of subordination to men.
 Women are commanded to bear children and be domestic keepers while men can have all the alcohol and affairs they want while seeming to get away with it, and thus it would not be surprising that Winterson finds women receiving the losing end of the bargain when it comes to marriage. Indeed the very institution of marriage is something of a joke in the Winterson household.
Hence it is this servility to men Jackie and Sam wish to escape in their fling, but perhaps the film Be with Me comments that due to the social stigma that goes with being lesbian, these relationships are unable to last. Jackie and Sam are happy being with each other only when they are alone in each other’s company, but the highlight is that they are alone when they are in each other’s company, shut off from the world and in the meantime stigmatized for being homosexual.Indeed it is not so much a lack of romance that kills the relationship as the stigma which accompanies it and thus making it unsustainable for the long term because society has so much against homosexual relationships.
 While strides in the gay rights movements have legitimized homosexual marriages in some parts of the world, the religious backlash against homosexuality remains strong and will always be at odds because it is scripturally forbidden by most monotheistic religions. The film is not a disapproval of such relationships but a comment that due to the high amount of stigma such relationships suffer, these relationships lead to heartbreak and suicide. The film as such is not a moral condemnation of such relationships but a comment on the high amount of existential difficulties such relationships face.
Perhaps the greatest statement that the film seeks to put forth is that self-serving relationships will always lead to despair. Hence, the lesbians fall out of love when one party loses interest due to preference for a more socially conforming relationship, and the death that stalking a person out of your social reach leads to. However in place of these self-serving relationships is the remarkable story of Theresa Chan who does not so much seek to take love from someone as give love unconditionally even when she is impaired by her circumstances from doing so.
Born blind and death, Theresa Chan’s story is similar to Hellen Keller’s, about the indomitability of the human spirit and the perseverance to overcome all odds despite being physically disabled. The amount of courage and sacrifice that goes into Theresa Chan’s daily living makes the lesbian plot look shallow and insipid in comparison.
 While these two girls selfishly seek romantic fulfilment from each other which is short lived and conditional on maintaining the other party’s interest, Theresa’s bold love for humanity is unconditional and seeks to give where she experiences hardly any from society as a handicapped person. Courageously, Theresa conducts lessons for disabled students and even despite her disabilities does charity work around the world for those less fortunate than herself.
This is the paradox of Christian charity, it gives and takes the place of sin and wrongdoing, in response to wrongdoing, one is told to turn one’s cheek, in response to one’s enemies, one is told to forgive, in response to debts accumulated and owed, one is called to cancel one’s debt and forgive, it is a giving in place of receiving, taking the place of he who has sinned and replacing indebtedness with forgiveness and cancellation of debt. 
While this may seem impossible to worldly eyes, Derrida precisely views Christianity as an impossible religion. As Christianity is essentially an otherworldly and spiritualized religion, it is impossible to conceive of a material Christianity or a Christianity separate from the transcendental beyond that it is essentially premised upon. Derrida’s intervention is not that Christianity is an impossibility but an impossible possible enabled through differance and iterability.
 	Theresa Chan’s life is an embodiment of Christian sacrifice.Perhaps the film’s greatest comment is that true love lies in giving rather than receiving, it is Theresa’s unconditional love of humanity despite her experience of rejection from the world for being handicapped, which is the greatest love of all.
It is the impossibility of Christ’s incarnation and forgiveness of sins that makes the law possible as Christ came to fulfil the law rather than to defeat it. Derrida’s injunction to forgive the unforgiveable and move into a Derridean third space of thinking the impossible forgiveness of sins and holding one accountable to the death penalty for transgressions committed is an extension of his meditations on hospitality and forgiveness, extending Christian charity, forgiveness and hospitality as a move that exceeds the law and exceeds the thinking of the possible but it is precisely this impossibility of grace, mercy,Christian charity and forgiveness which makes the law possible just as the exception is necessary to thinking the rule.
Hence perhaps Theresa’s greatest gift is forgiving those around her and extending hospitality to those around her where she has experienced rejection and cruelty. As a citizen of God rather than of the world, Theresa extends charity to those around her regardless of her own circumstances and gives where she hardly receives. This is much akin to Christ’s act of giving sacrificially of his own life for atoning our sins without receiving anything in return but mockery and scorn instead. Hence perhaps the greatest statement of the film is that love is a gift which should not expect anything in return and be unconditional.
Thus Ickapoo could relate to Others by loving them, giving, forgiving even without receiving any love in return. Give without hope of profit, love without reciprocity or conditionality.

It was the year 2046. In the distant and faraway planet or Yr lived a lonely alien named Ickapoo. It had no friends as all its species had been vanquished from a meteor storm. In its solitude and misery it pined for a companion.
Yr was a bare and inhospitable planet. With winds blowing at 150 km an hour, it was virtually impossible to see past the blizzard and storm. Ickapoo yearned for friends and company. Many a time he fiddled with his transistor radio, sending out messages and hoping for a response. He sent fire launchers and rockets into space, hoping that some space traveler would find out about his existence. Ickapoo was an alienated alien. In the same way humans wondered whether we were the only species to inhabit the universe, Ickapoo felt estranged and isolated from the rest of the cosmos.  Join Ickapoo on his escapades across galaxies and worlds in search of company.
Ickapoo the lonely Alien, 2046 is created by Chung Chin-Yi , an eGlobal Creative Publishing Signed Author

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