love and it's gender

funny how love has gender roles, is you're aen you're allowed to love suitable to your needs, place and situations but being a woman you're supposed to wait to win him over, understand his moods and situations just to be capable of being a lovable woman by him.

again this is how major section of the society including us women think. sometimes the wait for her man is so long so she looses every hope after thinking from every paradigm but even a flinch of man's voice can fix her whole coastal town but the question arises who's doing the rebuilding here the woman or that man.