Mother: Akon Aguer Diing Yai

Mother: Akon Aguer Diing Yai

Mom; Akon was born in the village called wunraak dated

back to 1950s, and she grew up in her riches family of

Diing-Gop her grandfather, with her siblings as of her

big sister Abuk Aguer, Yai Aguer, Angui Aguer, Ahok

Aguer, Garang Aguer and Akon Aguer and her last siter,

her second Brother Garang Aguer was killed in Swarm

(toc) Conflict, in his first day of return home from North

Sudan and found there were some of his relatives who

prepared to go for fighting; immediately he join them

without his family noticed where he arrived in war zone

within few minutes of fighting; he was speared that led

to his dead in few hours later, meanwhile her big brother

Yai Aguer gone missing during liberation of South

Sudan, he went to Ethiopia in liberation period where he

was captured with some of his relatives men and they

were taken to military camp in Ethiopia where he gone

missing in the year 1994 and his battalion officer said he

was died; in which his family have no any information

about him until today, he is still wanted by his sister

Akon.

Akon herself attended cattle camp in her teenager

during British colonial of Sudan, she didn't attended

schools, in their time girls were not allowed to attended

studies, girls were kept in cattle camp until they grown

up-to they reach their 30s, and that was when they're

ready for married, where their parent asked dowry of

about 300 or 400 cows for marring a single girl, at her

30s in 1980s she got married to Garang chuor Loch from

(Panguet Pan Loch Awin-bek) in yargot, and she was

taken to her home in yargot were she gave birth to her

children such as, Garang Garang, Agot Garang, Lual

Garang, loch Garang, Dut Garang, Adhel Garang, and

her lastborn Deng Garang the writer of this book, she

lived in her happily family until they had differences

between her and her husband Garang Chuor Loch, and

that was when she went back to her family home and her

husband got married to his second wife until the time

when her husband Garang chuor himself went to his

farms in south-west of Aweil where he lived there for

some year before his departure.

Later; in some years ahead five children had died due to

causes of some diseases effected people back in early age

when there were no enough hospitals, this cost her five

of her children died in their different years, and only two

children were born later in 1990s were girl and boy, she

was very pleased to raise them in right way, so they could

be good people later in their life.

She also got responsibility of her mother (Agel kuol) and

her big sister' until Ageldit's finally day of departure in

2016 in her oldest age at115 years. Here are things Akon

was good at:

She was Great-woman and known for her skill of songs

listener back in the village, she was a good Samaria and

a dancer, she has senses of humor. She is now alive and

grateful for all she did to her two children in which her

lastborn is now an entrepreneur, digital marketer,

Public-relation, Author and Philosopher.

She looks up' and saying" I did enough to my children

and finally I'm retired, it's up to my children to whether

try earning their own living for I didn't have energy

again.

The lastborn is grown and his sister got married long

time ago; nobody will blame me, she raised them already.

Particularly anything that was likely to effect the future

of her two children, she was opened reminding them to

kept awake with modern way of life.

At that age, she had been unable to sleep, rather than

imagine and pray for brighter future of her children.

At midnight her brain bursting urgent in half-formed

thoughts; and she believe that one child specially the boy

was heading to his brighter tomorrow; but in the end she

want to teach her son how to be nicest person to his big

sister and for all people around him later.

She was excited by how much work her son does to host

himself when he was in exile, after she maintain her high

interest of wanting her son back when he completes his

studies' an overwhelming to talks on phone calls, sending

voice notes, to asked her son if he's getting ready to come

back home; at least none of coming of her son has effect

in family.

Her big sister who has been abandon by her son and her

husband was having good time with her at her home

when her son failed take care about his mother, Akon

herself took responsibility of her big sister who has

mental disorder.

After few years later her big sister died of the same

illness follow their mother (Ageldit) that was when her

sister's son told Akon's family that after his mother died,

then he has no longer related to Akon's family;

meanwhile he phones calls Akon her son and asked him

for help; Akon her son was in the exile meanwhile he told

Akon's family in the village that they're no longer

relatives after his mother died.

Akon was surprised about how her big sister's son

divided family that half of family are not related to him

while another family member on aboard are related to

him, asking herself 'is this my sister's son okay' the story

was very surprised to hear' in which Akon took matter in

her hands and asking her son on board to be opened

about behaviors of her sister's son toward her family

and for safety of her son in the exile.

Apparently she has warning receded in her mind as this

was negativities, she didn't ask anyone to help her out of

cruel behaving of her sister's son; she treats it as

negative and it was not effect vicious cycle of her family.

In front of her, at least' her son Deng, her daughter and

grandchildren; she was very pleased with all her

presents and grateful for everything.

She invested on her son to become strongest child than

any children in her relatives, so her son Dengdit will

write their history later for next generation's inspiration,

she used her tactics of making her Son one in trillion and

one of his kind in his generation.