Chapter 166: A new storm has appeared !!

"Hey, stop, stop, stop, I can't stand it anymore." Wang Jian covered his heart with a painful expression on his face.

Bai Xueyao paused in panic: "No... Are you alright?"

Wang Jian waved his hand, slowed down, and let out a sigh of relief: "It's okay, it's okay."

In fact, he didn't have a heart attack, or he was not feeling well, it was just the episode that made him uncomfortable.

The actor's acting skills in "Little Sadness" are really good. His daughter's grievance made him feel the same way, and his mother looked like "I do all this for your own good". She didn't consider her daughter's feelings at all, but thought that What I do is taken for granted, and I feel that I am the most aggrieved person, which is too real and too unbearable.

For Wang Jian, who usually likes to watch sand sculptures and give speeches, and whose parents have been more relaxed since childhood, the impact of the plot is too strong.

This kind of parental love is, to put it mildly, a failure of education, and to say it seriously, it is obsessive.

Wang Jian also finally knew why he frequently saw the topic of "Little Sadness" on the bib hot search list recently, and why Bai Xueyao showed a serious expression just now.

Watching this kind of TV show makes it hard not to feel entangled and uncomfortable.

"The TV series is pretty good, great, but I won't watch it." Wang Jian leaned back on the chair, rubbed his chest, and relieved his sullen breath.

Bai Xueyao tilted her head and asked suspiciously, "Tragic...in the past?"

Wang Jian laughed out loud: "My parents are still very loose to me, although there are times when they are unpleasant - but who didn't have any conflicts with their parents when they were in school? The overall relationship is still very good, and it will be a lot when I grow up. Things can be understood, and I love them even more. Seeing your serious expression just now, could it be that your parents are very strict with you?"

Bai Xueyao nodded and shook her head: "Piano."

Wang Jian immediately understood: "Only if you are strict with you on the piano, you will be more relaxed in your studies, and you will be treated well in life, right?"

"Um."

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After breakfast, Wang Jian came to the studio and firstly wiped the Nexi figure and Pikachu figure carefully, and enjoyed it for a while.

Then I thought of the "Little Sadness" I just saw, and I couldn't help but read the comments of netizens on the scarf.

"This is a typical Chinese-style parent! Selfishness and self-righteousness! Under the banner of being good for the child, he imposed what he thought was good on the child, and ultimately ruined the child's happiness in life!"

"I want the child to fly, and cut off the child's wings cruelly, and finally blame the child for not being able to fly."

"This TV series is too real, isn't this my mother?"

"It's so real, I want to report it/cry"

"My mother is like that too."

"The acting is so good, I cried while watching it."

"Is this the case with children and parents now? It feels so stressful."

"The love of parents and elders has become the pressure of children, the pressure of wanting to escape..."

"My most hated line: 'Yingzi, you are everything'! That kind of self-moving face makes me want to vomit!"

"The moral kidnapping of children in the name of love."

"Yingzi's mother is a typical Chinese-style parent. She keeps saying, 'As long as the child is happy, I will be happy', and 'the child's life is as important as everything else'. In fact, the child's feelings are not taken seriously at all."

"I think the most ironic scene is the showdown between Yingzi and her mother, saying she wants to go to Jinling University.

Yingzi: 'I want to go to Jinling University, this is my dream! '

Yingzi's mother: 'Then you say it! '

Yingzi: 'I said, will you agree? '

Yingzi's mother: 'Of course I can't agree! '"

"This part is really uncomfortable."

"It's a Chinese-style parent like Yingzi's mother who scoffs at their children's dreams, and even rudely interferes and strikes, so that the children eventually become the same. Can this be creative?"

"The TV series "Little Sorrows"

It reflects the characteristics of Chinese-style parents who hold the idea of ​​​​wanting their children to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, and rudely regard their children as tools to achieve their ideals. "

"That's right! The child's free heart has too many demands. This is an obliteration of an unformed personality!"

"From this TV series, people can clearly feel the education anxiety of the middle class. Parents have clear and precise goals, and even quit their jobs in order to make their children a good "product". But the children created in this way are really Can it fit into the future?"

In the comments, many are denouncing "Chinese-style parents".

There are many more, which are pouring out the unhappiness between themselves and their parents.

"My experience is the same as that of Yingzi. My parents are divorced. My mother has high expectations for me and is extremely strict. As long as my grades are one place lower than last time, I would not dare to go home and face her eyes. This "love" just suffocates me, I can't breathe, I feel like I'm drowning, I have the same insomnia as Yingzi, I often can't think about it, I don't want this kind of "love"...I really don't know, if that When I did not do well in the college entrance examination, I still had the courage to live. Fortunately, I did well in the test. But that shadow is still lingering in my heart."

"I found a promising job back then. My mother was going to die. She insisted that I go back to my hometown and take the civil servant exam. I felt that life would be stable. When I eat with them now, I always seize the opportunity. Pretend to mention unintentionally, how much the colleagues who worked together in the past are now earning, have a house and a car and have a happy family, so they dare not answer."

"It's the same with me. I will keep this hatred in my heart, and I will never forget it even in thirty or fifty years. I will definitely take revenge back then."

Wang Jian frowned when he saw these comments that were bursting with negative energy.

He couldn't help but post a message: "Today I watched a little bit of the recently popular TV series "Little Sadness", and saw some comments in the scarf, all of which criticized Chinese-style parents one-sidedly. I want to be a Chinese-style parent. Say a few words.

In fact, family education is difficult to grasp. Both parents and children have their own difficulties. I want to understand each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and resolve conflicts with love.

Chinese-style parents are not only strict, selfish, self-righteous, and not good at communication. They also have a gentle, tolerant, strong, and lovely side. I don't want to only see the negative side of the parent, but also the positive side.

The game I'm developing recently is called "Chinese Parents", and I hope to explore the relationship between parents and children through this game. "

As soon as Wang Jian's dynamic was released, it quickly set off a storm!