How could the smiling Xia Jinyuan fail to see that among the three roommates, Xu Wen was the one with the most ideas? Hearing that, he smiled and said, "Jian and I are both each other's first loves, so we don't have any exes. However, my opinion is that since an ex is an ex, we should cut off all ties. Maintaining a broken relationship is harmful to the current one. After all, we would've been intimate before.
"My father said that if I didn't marry Jian, he wouldn't want me anymore and would directly acknowledge Jian as his daughter. My grandparents have also said that other than Jian, no other woman can step into my family. Even my uncles, aunts, cousins, and cousins-in-law told me that since there were so many men in the family, one less wouldn't affect anything."
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This answer was a strong enough counter-attack. Xu Wen's following questions were like bubbles. They could be easily poked to resolve.