portal to grandparents home

Dating and introducing to family is the most common practice in these portal not as home on earth India. While coming to grandpa's style everything we do outside the portal has impact on life of the portal opening. In his defence, someone those days he liked has a birth mark in the eye witch is forbidden and when the portal opened to introduce that person. The brightness of the portal reduced and the world was not so welcoming. so grand pa needs to loose the person, before introducing and grand is practicing warlock ranked 15 to 20 in the portal realm. I am just a witch with rank 500 in my generation. I am referred as Miss.lead due to heritage of family. My magic is almost perfect when start even I could remember the spells and cast them so easily, barely even has mistake in the early days of craft. but I am not supposed to cast a spell on the ancestors for no reason to test the spell on ancestors. I made the portal of the sky in the portal opening and closing spell were not known at that time because when the portal are closed by elders in the group. This recklessness made me exile the portal for four years and to be entered and restart the spell classes from word of world origin. I dont understand parents letting me come to grandparents house cause,I am considered as abomination in that portal.