In fact, before I was only limited to helping him, my ex had a mental disorder, his emotions were out of control, maybe because it was the result of the violence he had experienced with his husband, As a fellow human being, I helped him get out of his problems, to be honest, it was only limited to my sympathy for him. But I didn't expect him to feel comfortable with what I did to him. until in the end he can live a normal life, he can control his emotions, can live a calmer life, become someone who is more obedient to his temperament.... But all of that actually backfired on my life, when I was about to stay away from him... he became a bad person again, likes to get angry, easily emotional and even threatens to endanger himself. Until I had time to take him to consult a psychiatrist, And the psychiatrist said, if my ex can't think, can't face problems, you have to be able to make him feel protected. So since that incident I have to always take care of her feelings, so that she still feels comfortable and happy... even though I know that her status is still someone else's wife. Despite the fact that she and her husband have not lived together for a long time. Until the time came, he asked me to plan a fiancé, and asked to get to know my relatives and family better. And to protect his feelings, I just followed his wishes
While looking for ways to make my ex no longer depend on me, so he can live his life without me. In the afternoon he (the ex) called,,,again...and my wife picked it up because my cell phone was indeed left behind at that time... Hello how are you Van.....???? How's it going... why don't you ever contact me now... Zarti just kept quiet listening to my ex's chatter Why are you silent...halooo...hallo...don't you want to know me anymore, are you babbling anymore... How dare you Van with me. Zarti finally answered:..hello, who is this? suddenly my ex was surprised to hear a woman's voice.... My ex: well who is this??? Zarti: I'm Van's wife,.. My ex: hahhh Van's wife since when did Van get married... don't be silly, he said. Don't make it up, don't joke Come on, where is Van, I want to talk to him, don't play games, OK? It's really presumptuous to pick up someone's phone. Zarti: really I'm his wife, we haven't been married for a long time, answered my wife casually.. My ex: ehhh, are you still nagging at admitting that your wife is Van, Van is mine, we have been planning to get engaged for a long time, it's been almost two years.. you are a woman, don't be a perpetrator... Zarti: uh sorry okay, watch your words I'm not a perpetrator, before that Van never told me that he already had a fiancé, if I knew and he said he was engaged, I would not want to marry him....My ex: alahh don't just brush you off, now I want to talk to Van, I want to hear directly from him. Zarti: he wasn't at home, he left his cell phone behind, he was at his brother's place who died. My ex: ouw so he's not home yet? Tell me later when he comes, ... I will call his future fiancé, Then for you, our business is not finished yet! I'll ask Van directly, you've been presumptuous to pick up his personal phone... My wife: uh miss, I'm not admitting it, I'm already married to him.... If you feel like I'm stealing your future fiancé, okay, I'm sorry I didn't know before as a fellow woman I really understand how you feel, if I were in your position I would definitely feel the same way. My ex: it's good if you feel that way, you know yourself, Van is mine and will be with me forever. My wife: if it's so good, let me give in. Once again, sorry for snatching someone's future fiancé. My wife immediately hung up from my ex, her tears were unstoppable... While holding back tears, she hurriedly took all her clothes, and got ready to leave..... Then came Hafi, his son, he asked mom why were you crying?? Where are we going ma'am?? Why clean the clothes??? We're going back to our home, son,,,, Answer my wife. We're going to grandma's house Then dad is coming?? Dad hasn't come home yet, asked Hafi innocently.... I'm not coming son, later after dad comes home we say goodbye, then we go..... When it was a bit dark, finally I went home. At that time, the atmosphere was quiet, quiet, no sound. Helloooo, where are you going home daddy!!!! Laeeeee!!! How come it's quiet where,,, I said to myself. It's because I don't know the problem that's going on, the problem between my wife who has received a call from my ex, which my wife has been cursed at by my ex, Yank, where are you, call me again, Soon I heard my wife's voice zarti replied, "Uh yank you've come home," he asked, while hiding his sad face, as if there were no problems. Yes.... where are you from... why did I call you and you didn't answer earlier... I asked I finished cleaning the room to make it tidy.. Wow, then where is Hafi??? There's someone in the room playing cellphone..... Why are you in a rush to go home asking my wife, you better stay there for a long time while you're hanging out with your family. Or because you don't have your cell phone with you so you hurry home.
Why are you yank,,,,,,I asked back how come you said that? I'm not happy that I'm going home quickly, even though I wanted to hurry back so I can quickly meet my beloved wife... It's okay, I just want to give you time for your family there... So that you don't think that I control you too much, replied my wife with annoyance again... Why are you yank, I asked again suspicious. Something must have happened when I wasn't home... What's wrong with you?? What is it ?? Say it to me,,,,,, Ow, yes, your future fiancé called... My wife finally wants to tell me why she's a bit cranky... Haha fiancé, who?? I ask again Wow! Who do you have a fiancé with? Why haven't you been honest with me all this time, if you already have a future fiancé! You know that I won't want to marry you, I also won't be called a perpetrator
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