CHAPTER TEN

LACK OF COMMUNICATION & ROLE OF SOCIAL MEDIA IN HOMES 

      Most today's couples no longer value each other's presence and communicate effectively in person but do so on the phone, the impact of social media in today's world. 

Every affection and emotion is used on social media with the aid of emojis and the display of smileys. 

Nude pics are used by today's couples to express anticipation for having sex, using social media to influence lovemaking. The negative effect remains the fact images and videos of the bodily display can get into the wrong hands. 

In the same way, a cheating husband or wife can be caught spying or snooping on each other's devices to find out about secret lovers' sex texting. 

Scandals and leaking of sex tapes involve at least married couples and their respective lovers which can easily be used as means of blackmail or could even lead to the death of either the cheating husband or the unfaithful wife. 

Such may bring shame and also expose the family's concern at the mercy of the media. 

Survey shows that 95 percent of caught cheating couples are caught via social media, the use of WhatsApp, Facebook, and Instagram for conveying nude pics and sex chat. 

95 percent of men love to exchange nude pics while 70 percent of women are obliged to exchange nude pics. 

Women are thrilled with messages conveyed in codes and recorded voice notes. 

Married men pay heavily for nude pictures to use for masturbation, such men with time will fail to appreciate their wives.

Single men who are involved in sleeping with a married woman recorded it for blackmailing their married partner who is married to a rich man so far extortion is common in recent ages.

The failure to pay for a nude picture or video means it will be leaked. 

About 30 percent of married women under this category have once contemplated suicide and fallen into depression. 

Some married couples find solace in social media like Facebook and Twitter; they fall victim to drug addicts, rapists, and serial killers.  

Men under the use of social media could carry out their sexual fantasies and fulfill their cravings by chatting with a woman half their wife's age or worse sending nudes and making sex requests to women about as old as their daughters. 

While the women send their nudes to young males and those showering them with love messages and compliments, at least she's getting the attention her husband failed to pay her. 

 She would lie to her husband that she was visiting the saloon or the church only to find herself in the hotel having a mind-blowing sexual experience in which the marriage is good as gone. 

The husband might meet a woman with so much sex experience he decides to make her a baby mama, such news keeps the social media going especially if the partner finds out and reacts aggressively. 

Sharing details of your home to unsuspecting strangers is a good way to break your home. 

Put yourself together and keep your raging hormones and emotions in check.