Love....

What is love?

This may be a silliest question one could ever ask .. but what exactly is love?

How do we define Love? and what are the different scenarios involved in what you call as "Love"

"You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

― Dr. Seuss

Well, I cannot deny the saying.. it is an emotion which cannot be explained in the action you do for another person.. it should be felt in every vein in your body...

You trust your life with them, you think that they are your world ... can this love be reciprocated? or is it fair for you to expect the same from your partner?

The answer is yes and no...

Trust should be mutual and it will not arise the moment you meet.. it evolves from the way you treat each other.. you respect your partner and you respect his/her decision.. you step in when you think he or she needs you.. you trust them with your life.. Unfortunately this is very rare to happen.. Trust is a thin line between being possessive and jealous and when you get confused between both you fall in trouble.

Having said that, should i blindly listen to my partner and jump out of a bridge if he ask me to? In the name of trust? My answer is NO...

When you do such things you will loose your individuality as a person and your blind trust on them is taken as an advantage and this is definitely not called as Love..

I meant jumping off from the bridge as a metaphor :) however i stand by my explanation...

I do whatever he likes and i make sure that he is not upset with me about anything that I do.. because I Love him ....

I stopped drinking or smoking in front of her and i only drink or smoke when she is away because i love her too much and i don't want to hurt her...

Sounds Familiar?

Does this mean you only want them to see your good side?