Da Argument

His mom decided to check up on them the following day and found out nothing and nobody in their apartment. She was surprised and returned to her place to informed Adam's Dad about it.

She and the father went out to the apartment to verify and found nothing and nobody in there.

The father said to the mom "don't worry about them because Adams is a grown man and he can decide anything suiting to him, so allow them to wallow."

The mom wasn't okay so she further called Adam's siblings to inform them about what happened, and they persuaded her to relax her mind because Adams is a grown man.

After a while she called Adams and he picked up the call. "Hello, good morning ma." Adams said

The mom replied "Good morning, how are you?"

Adams: "I'm fine ma."

Mom: "Where are you and what happened?"

Adams: "I Moved to a new place."

Mom: "And you decided not to inform anyone?"

Adams: "sorry ma, but yes."

Mom: "Even me?"

Adams: "yes ma."

Mom: "So finally you have chosen your wife over everyone and you think we are not important anymore right?

I knew what I've being through because of you, and even when you were in a critical condition I made sure we still look out for you.

I persuaded your dad to provide the apartment for you so you can returned home until you get better, just to make sure things get easier for you; but you decided to leave without informing us not even me?!

Do you still remember I'm your mother and your dad is still alive?

Mina is trying to turn you to a goofy rat with her bad attitudes right?

I detest it whenever someone refuses to take corrections, accept fault, amend their ways and adjust.

Mina was so rude, arrogant and proud which is the problem she was having with everyone, and I spoke with her severally as a mother but she refuses to adjust.

Do you think we should continue with that, neither if you think she's right, nor if you think you can continue with such type of woman who always think and feel she is right all the time?!"

Adams: "Sorry ma, I have a lot to say to you regarding everything, but I want to take my time to select the better words and ways to present them to you and dad. But for now I am truly sorry about everything and for my bad."

The new born baby started crying on the background and his mom heard voice through the phone, so she asked "whose baby is crying?"

Adams replied "Mine ma. Mina just delivered last night."

Mom: "Like seriously?! And you didn't care to call and tell me until now?

...wow, I'm so disappointed in you. So you can do this to me for real?!"

Adams: "Mom I understand you are hurt right now but please ma, can you take some breath and relax so we can sort it out later amiably?"

Mom: "Do not ever mentioned amiable to me because you don't know the meaning, and if you do then you are missing it!

Give Mina the phone!"

Adams: "Okay ma."

So he handed over the phone to Mina.

Mom: "Mina! Mina! Mina!"

Mina: "Yes Ma. Good morning ma."

Mom: "I mentioned your name like thrice and you won't dare welcome the other side of me, because I have tolerated and taken more than enough from you.

Adams is my child and my first child, and I adore him so much which is one of the reason I love you, but do not push me to a point that I wouldn't take it.

You have given birth to a baby and you didn't informed me about it. Have you called your mom to tell her about it?"

Mina: "No ma."

Mom: "Better!" Where are you guys right now?"

Mina: "At Fuchsia Estate ma."

Mom: "Send me the address."

Mina: "Okay ma."

So Adams mom ended the call.

Mina was furious but coordinated herself and typed the address and forwarded to her.

Mina: "Why you didn't tell them we were moving out, now the whole blames on me?

That was not fair. You should have told mom about it."

What if our children does this to us?

You better be careful with them don't allow their anger to prevail on us and better find a way to address this issue before it got out of control.

You know mom doesn't care if you've grown old or not, she can mess you up anywhere and nothing you would do about it. So make sure you put things right with her before she comes."

Adams: "You ladies are something else for real."

Mina: "Yes, we are. You can just see that through me and your Mom."

Adams: "keep your mouth shut! You would say all kinda things before we moved out of the family House and how you detest the idea of living in there, and now the you are passing the blame on me.

Do you think we would be here if I had let them know about our movements?

Mom would never allowed us to move inhere if she knew about it. I knew what I did and fear not, she's my mom and I know exactly how to relate with her.

Have me the phone so I can forward some messages to her, then you can call her in one hour's time and apologize to her.

The first thing you should tell her if she picks up the call is [sorry ma.] Then listen to all she would say and if you have to say anything then it should be sorry.

Don't try in any means to be defensive nor say something more but apology. And believe me everything is going to be alright."

Mina: "I'm nervous about calling her but I will try."

Adams: "Better."

Adams mom told the Dad about the baby and she was really angry about it.

The Dad persuaded her to relax in such condition, saying to her "you know how your son can be sometimes, I just feel we should give him some space to couple himself back. Adams is not really in his good state of mind, he needs time, we should allow him to do what he thinks is good for him.

I advise you not to overreact or get mad over any of them. Because Mina is still a young lady who needs grow gradually, so be easy on her too.

Adams need space to understand some little things about life. And our watchful eyes would not grant him that chances to experience those things of life.

Experiences is one of the key teacher that would impact reasonably and influences some positive changes and behaviors towards someone. He need that, so allow him.

Relax your mind and don't hurt yourself over a grown man, he will understand everything he needed pretty soon.

Just play your mother role to both of them and don't react to their mistakes. Because your reaction may turned you to something you don't wish nor hope for."

So Mina's call came into Adam's mom's phone while she was still having some conversations with the father.

Mina: "Hello mama, so sorry about everything, please forgive us."

The Dad was listening and he signaled the Mom to respond calmly. And the Mom did exactly.

Mom: "Hello Mina, it is okay. Don't worry we will see you guys soon and you and I will talk more. But for real I have forgiven y'all.

So what name are you guys planning to name the child?"

Mina: "We have a name, but I will prefer you to name the child."

Mom: Laughed. "So you think I should name the child?"

Mina: "I will be so happy if you do ma."

Mom: "Okay. I will think of a name. Until we see I will let you know."

So they both ended the call happily, and that was how they reconciled with each other.