Complexity of behavior

''One bad deed vanishes all your good ones''.

human beings are very complex. they are not easy to understand. some of them are so complex that you cannot image when their mood is gonna swing. if you do something good with someone, he/she will barely remember it. but if you do something wrong, they will never forget it.

it is true that negativity attracts people. people starts looking for negativity in people. they just need something to criticize others. in case of one sided love, you will do everything which is good for your loved one. anything to please them, to make them comfortable or happy. but if you have done something, that other feels is uncomfortable, than at that spot, they will forget each and everything that you have done for them and start showing rude behavior.

first of all, you better know that if someone love someone, he/she will never do something wrong with the other person. you can never think about hurting, degrading and defaming him/her. by mistake, if you have done something unconsciously then they will look at that bad part only and forget about all the good stuff. they will keep that rude behavior with you even, you are apologizing. at that point you realize that you have no importance in his/her life. you are just wasting your time and money.

but you, being obsessed with him/her, just forget about that. you start behaving like nothing bad happened to you. the other person also do the same but in other way by ignoring you, giving no response. you are still trying to apologize. you keep pushing yourself for that person that can never be yours. it is heartbreaking tragedy and you are going to live up-to it.