theory about why men cant understand woman

my theory is most guys are only thinking of themselves they do what they can to get what they want I mean for generations its been done alot of guys don't give women proper respect but honestly it's all about their feelings personality the actual them not whats on the outside the worlds filled with so much darkness it affects any and all but to truly understand women I believe you need to focus on their personality and feelings its not the same with every woman but thats because to truly understand how EVERY woman thinks would be an act of divine intervention because its hard just to understand one on a inner level women can be fragile stoic brutal tough etc but like all people they have feelings and no one likes being promised things they cant live up to not being used and thrown away