CHAPTER SIX

Hygiene and toilet habits

Funny enough it sounds petty but is way too important to note toilet habits can do a lot in relationships.

A clean toilet is a clean health for both couples.

What happens if you tend to leave the toilet not flushed? It provokes the other partner, soon enough it shows you are unhygienic as a person.

You don't do your laundry often, you don't shave or take regular baths even if you want sex at least light showers twice a day should do the trick of keeping you clean.

Most women don't even take care of their hygiene as much as they care for their phones, makeup, and dresses.

Most men don't care about their hygiene as much as he cares about chilling with their friends.

Then both couples could give each other toilet infections while the unsuspecting partner goes and cheats and gets infected with STI.

Toilet habits could make couples grumpy for weeks almost either yelling at each other or not even speaking to each other at all.

Intolerance and poor communication

Often most couples fail to listen to each other's complaints, respect each other's points of view, and most importantly apologize.

Poor communication has broken most early marriages.

Some men with big egos won't listen to your point of view or even apologize when they are wrong.

Simple words like

"am sorry",

"thank you",

"I love you".

These words have a way of warming and calming your partner down.

Some men won't apologize but prefer to buy gifts as a means of being sorry.

Some women have long adapted to the lifestyle of shouting and not coming to terms and agreement. This would breach your communication and once it does it gives room for infidelity because you might not be on talking terms with your partner but you are always active and paying attention to newly made friends on social dating sites while you are married.

Fake lifestyle

Two people may meet at functions, parties, and clubs.

Men tend to boost their egos around women they perceived as a big catch. Women who come from wealthy homes, or women who are well known and well placed in society as very important personnel men intimidated by such women often lie and brag about things they don't have to meet up with the criteria as an eligible man for the woman to marry as a perfect husband.

After a quick marriage without being properly scrutinized the woman begins to know the real person, she gave her heart. She begins to see you as an opportunist and she abandons the marriage.

The same goes for women who elevate their status to meet up with the males. When he finds out he constantly abuses you and reminds you how he raised you out from the slums you came from.

False sexual Prowess

Most women who prefer men satisfying in bed end up making a bad choice especially if your partner uses enhancers, drugs, and stimulants as means of motivation before getting down.

There are drugs, as such rigger male hormones to get to work, viagra as such is a drug that treats premature ejaculation and slightly enlarges the male sex organ for long-lasting sexual activity.

However, it might fail sometimes especially when the brain fails to trigger the hormones needed for sexual activities or worse cause one sexual partner to pass out during sexual activity. High blood pressure is mainly the culprit in older men when they take Viagra for sexual readiness.

Other abusive substances used by young males as means of aphrodisiac and means of mind-blowing sex eg heroin, cocaine, and ecstasy could lead to cases of domestic violence and abuse.

Women who fall victim to such abusive males might have to endure the torture until it becomes extremely unbearable.

Any day a spouse lacks drug supply words of mockery and violence take place leading to severe injuries or death.

Most victims are married in this situation and at least 80 percent of people under this stage had filed for divorce or had abandoned their partner and eloped with someone they can tolerate.

Once two people in love get past this stage the courtship stage and familiarization stage congrats both of you have conquered each other's demon, after bonding the dating couples or couples are inseparable and the next phase is the dicey part of starting a family.