Carl's Back Story

The problem or rather this situation he was in was caused by his mom Olivia Santos.

You know when a woman meets a man for the first time that has a bad attitude right from the beginning and when they notice it or people around them notice it.

What does the close person of that individual do?.

That's right warn them about it, that suspicious behaviour of the stranger danger.

And what do the women say all the time....

Yep, that's right, spot on. 75% percentage of women see the red flags in a man ahead of time and in response to that what do they say?

"I will change him or I can change him".

OR

"He said he would change or he would change"

That was the problem with Carl's mom, her incorrect response towards her husband.

He started to get possessive of her in various ways;

One, gaslighting her in not having male friends. He said they were interested in her and that he was jealous about it and told them to stay clear of them. She did. But was that the problem,no it was not.

He started to get physically abusive with her for the second time when he was passing a front of a restaurant with his best friends when he saw her with a group of people discussing and having fun.

They were 11 people in total her with five of her female friends and five guys.

He stormed inside the restaurant with a fake smile but before entering he told his friends he needed to solve an issue and that they could go on their way.

He entered asked her what she was up to and that coincidentally he saw her here.

After exchanging pleasantries with the people around the table he told her that they needed to go.

Trying to convince him that she wanted to stay, in response he glared at her making her scared she then told her friends that she needed to go.

Jokingly telling her friends that her boyfriend missed her and he can't live without her.

After leaving the restaurant he angryly dragged her home in the process hurting her wrists.

After getting home he proceeded to hit her without telling her why not letting her explain herself.

After beating her for quite sometime his anger subsided getting clear headed he stopped beating her.

He then shouted at her to explain herself when he clearly stated to her not to have male friends.

She then explained that they weren't her friends, each of the guys there where her friends boyfriend.

When he realised his mistake, he apologized saying why didn't she mention it earlier before and it was her fault it came to that point.

He apologized to her seeing that she was crying stating that she should forgive him and that he will never do it again and that if he did, then he was a dog.

That's when he'll started nitpicking at everything. Forcing her to stop talking to her friends, completely cutting them off her life.

He made quit her job explaining that what he made was enough for the both of them.

To the extent of making her not leave the house all together. And when he found out he snuck outside to go shopping or bye groceries, he would beat her up every time and apologise for it.

This cycle continued over and over every time starting from their first date, any time he beat her up he would buy her a bouquet of white roses because it was her favourite colour and flower.

At first it was fine but the continuous act made her hate the colour white and anytime he would present her a new test of roses to apologise it caused her trauma and mental illness.

The beating got worse when she was having continuous miscarriages seven times while the eight time which was baby Carl was almost a miscarriage but this time while her husband was beating her up she decided to protect the baby with her might.

The other times she was pregnant it went to a maximum of 3 months before miscarriage.

This time it got to 5 months. Her husband treated her better, anytime he came back from work he would go to his wife praise her for her hard work and caress her stomach.

Every time he did that he was scared that he would change her mind but it didn't happen luckily and her being pregnant made her mentally better.

The happiness stopped after 8 months. One day her husband started to getting mad at her claiming that she was putting on weight and that her stomach was to big.

She tried to explain to him that it was because she was pregnant and when she delivered she would be back to her original body shape.

He told her to shut up and that he wanted her to go to her original form after a week.

The next day he came back unhappy from work for some reason and started to take it out on her.

First it was insults, blaming her for his current state, and that he had now three mouths to feed and she doesn't do anything around to help him and the only thing she knows is how to eat and stuff her with food.

Then he started beating her up to relieve his stress and anger.

Seeing her protect her belly when beating her up got him excited. He then decided to aim at her stomach.

Since it was a big bump she couldn't cover her belly entirely not sooner or later the next he intencionally hit the centre of her stomach.

On the impact she felt so much pain on her belly, then she started bleeding, blood flowing out of her legs spreading everywhere on the floor.

Seeing the situation he panicked. As usual he started apologizing again like he always does.

He loudly slapped himself saying it was his fault while he hurriedly called for emergency service.

When she got to the hospital the doctors quickly asked for a CT scan which in it they found out she and the baby was in danger.

They informed the two that she would have to give birth prematurely and they also had to do a C-section on her. It was the only way. She finally gave birth after hours.

Secondly, the first time when he was aggressive and physical with her was on their first date they meet at a restaurant to get to know eachother!!!

He told her to eat less and directly to her was fat when she wanted to order Risotto.

He told the waitress to cancel her girlfriend order to a salad with no cream, no cheese, or any of that.

He told the waitress to bring just only lettuce with tomatoes without vinegar, oil or any salt. Just that, lettuce with diced tomatoes.

Seeing she was not happy with the date he apologized to her saying he thought she mentioned wanting to loose weight which she didn't.

After much convincing she agreed to see him after a week. He apologized to her gifting her a bouquet of white roses, which she taught it was sweet of him.

Since he remembered she liked roses and her favourite colour white.

After giving birth the situation continued more and more she got lifeless though her son was her motivation for living.

Until one day when she saw her son look at her with innocent her which broke her heart.

She noticed the signs that very soon it would be her son's turn double down she also knew she wouldn't be able to defend him.

Not wanting to be a witness to that, at 10 years old Carl saw his mother taking her own life, committing suicide by jumping out the window from their balcony.

Her last words to him were,

" I am sorry ".

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What do you feel about this heart breaking episode.

On another note seriously.

Women, Men, Girls or Boys. If you see this attitude please run ⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️