"You'll both have to complete the child care and adoption course but that can be done whilst the child has a trial month with you. How does that sound?" The manager of the adoption centre asks Tobias and I, her eyes flickering between both of us. I nod my head, glancing down at the paperwork in my hands.
"A trial month sounds great. What happens if the child doesn't settle in?" I ask her, wanting to know more. She smiles and leans backwards in her chair-
"We'll do everything we can to make sure the child is comfortable. If they aren't and it's not a right match, that's okay too. This is forever so we have to make sure we get it right."
"That makes sense." Tobias says, giving my hand a squeeze.
"During the month, you'll have numerous home visits. Some will be scheduled and others will be unannounced but don't worry, we're not trying to catch you out. It's mandatory for us to keep checking in." She explains, handing me another piece of information.