Mentality

The ideal mentality of people is that girls should be marrried early and become accustomed to the new environment and blend with their life.Everyone thinks girl must obey his husband.This was better but the worst is that she had to obey the husband's brother even though not their birth brother.Letting them decide dress for his to be wife and pressurize her to do as his distant brother which is totally unjust.

This should not continue which only degrade her status.

I totally despise the men's mentality that "when there is no male heir in their wife family,the first son in law holds the important position and control the wife's house".

Which is not practically possible if there are two sisters,there rise an issue on which side the female parent should side.

While the male has the dominance that his wealth is ancestry and the wife should never ask anything related to wealth to his mom since it will hurt her.

What kind of nonsense is that ?

The female family is actually rich in terms of wealth compared to the male.

Female's great grandfather had brought land through own hard work.While her grand parents and parents also brought land by their own hard work since young and still working in land even in retirement age.

In any means,she wont agree to his demands.