The experience of losing her mother was engrained in her so fiercely that she became a shallow person beyond compare. Wouldn't going back to a powerful Clan like her mother's have the exact opposite effect? In fact, the reality that Dyon was the one to save her and not Violet's own father had already served to confirm her deeply rooted beliefs.
Wasn't Dyon a True God? He literally represented the peak of what it meant to be an expert in this martial world. Even those outer fringe clans that existed outside the tower quadrants would treat him with respect once he was fully matured.
It seemed like wherever Violet turned, her own inner thoughts were only confirmed again and again… Clearly, she had no idea that Dyon came from absolutely nothing to build himself up to where he was now.