My mom called her family as God may have it they answered her, she called them regarding her position in my father's house, she also called my father's kinsmen and they answered. They told my father to give us empty land and also that my father should build at least two rooms there so that we will live there, my father refused but later accepted, but the first wife is not happy, then she said my father should give her the empty land that she wants to build there and that she don't want any co-operation that she wants to be alone. The deliberated on it and they gave her a condition that if they give her the empty land that the main house will become ours and she accepted.... Years later after building in the empty land they gave her she came back to collect the main house saying it's her right and my father supported her. My mom have no one to run to so she invited the kinsmen and her family people again luckily some are still alive, and the warned the first wife never to step her feet in the house again... Right now we are living in our house, just that the roof is damage and rain is coming inside the house but still I am happy.....