everyone has things that annoys the shit out of them.
Either they are situations they stuck in or some things that they can't get rid of.
reading the above lines the things that annoys you must have popped in your mind.
If something did then you are a human and if it didn't congratulations!
you already know the art of ignorance.
Seriously if something didn't pop up in your mind then there are 2 things that can be the reason
you are super chilled and unbothered person or
you know the art of ignorance!
for me i am kinda confused between these 2 things
surely sometimes you do get annoyed well because you are human
when you are a chilled person nothing annoys you easily
Your sister is wearing your clothes!
Nothing new about it. she has been doing that ever since you were born
You failed in an exam
its okay anyway the teacher is an idiot.
(Hell no respect your teachers that was just for entertainment purposes)
you boyfriend isn't replying to your texts
its okay he must be busy.
being chilled is something a person is usually born with in but when it comes to art of ignorance you learn it.
ignorance is when something is annoying you but you don't let it get on your nerves and doesn't let it affect your work , mood or actions.
learning this skill is hella hard. trust me it took me good 4 years to learn quarter of this skill.
since i haven't graduated from this art i can't tell you exactly how to learn it but here is what i try to do
When something is annoying me or instance my idiot brother.
i don't pay attention to him just distract myself or continue doing my work
if he troubles me with my work i let him do what ever he wants because i have made myself understand the fact that he wont stop until he do what he wants to do so i let him do it. it wont help stopping him or showing that i am annoyed because that is what he wants
i usually use this art to ignore a lot of people in my life that unfortunately i can't throw or cut out of my life even if i am dieing to do so
if you are an introvert like me you might already know that ignorance helps avoiding fights and arguments.
but too much of this is very dangerous.
once you know what can ignorance can do it becomes addicting
You know it kills your ability to stand up. yes it happened to me
I once ignored so much in my life that i forget what I actually wanted
even if it was the smallest thing like clothes.
once you start ignoring your mind understand that even if something is annoying it won't affect you so its the same as being a chilled person.
a lot of chaos would end even if a quarter of worlds population would learn this skill.