Baba as he is fondly called, is a pride to his little princesses running around him for one thing or the other and to also get baba's attention.
Baba is a no nonsence man, an action man, a disciplinarian to the core, very understanding easy going and fun to be with so long as the right thing is being done by every individual around him then you have no worries of him being around you hmmmm.
Baba is of royal backgroung, his father was a king and that makes him a royal but you will never know if he does not bring your attention to it, and this is because of his simple and easy going life style and the way he cope with people around him by giving them sence of belonging whenever any issue comes up and with this you can easily confide in him even if you are meeting with him for the first time, he will definitely give you a listening ears. This is the kind of person baba was.
He never had a formal education according to baba he stopped at standard six {6} of the olden days academic system this is due to some factors which he never hid from us his little angels, we understood and also wish he actually had a formal education and we all promised to make him proud of us in future and that he will never have to regret anything.
Baba was married to a wife and eleven {11} children, six {6) boys and five {5} girls, as they always say some are crying while some are celebrating, some are looking for just one {1} or a miscarriage while baba had in excess, can you imagine?
Sometimes in life, some things are not really the way it looks and or how it sounds, you just have to get use to the way it is to get things going and life goes on for everyone.
Having some memories to look back at put smiles on everyone's face, a loving sweet memory of the past and childhood memories that cannot be easily forgotten like a wind that just breezed and pass by or a flash of light.
Growing up with baba as a father was fun, baba hates being manipulated by anyone, always tell him the truth no matter how difficult it is for you, just be truthful to him and to yourselves and let the rest be and all will be well shikena {hausa word meaning that is all}. Life they say is sweet for those who know how to enjoy it, when you work for it and not just by manipulating other people before you can enjoy yourself.
Work hard, work hard if you must enjoy in future work hard and be somebody in life because the future is for the strong and brave, baba will always say if you are lazy you can never become somebody and if eventually you make it in life you will have to enjoy yourselves before remembering your sponsors. In essence, anything that is worth doing is worth doing well, so in be up and doing for the betterment of your tomorrow.
No no no to friends hanging around to avoid unnecessary or unwanted distractions and bad influence from kids with bad parental upbringing.
Children they say are ambassador of their parents. When you see some kids and the way they behave in public you as a parent you will never want your children around those kids because you feel they will influence your own children negatively, and this is how baba operates as well. He want everyone around to speak well of his children and because of this he want every of his children to act responsibly both home and abroad.
So, you can see that nobody wants to be associated with failure or bad influence. As baba will always say, people will always ask, whose child is that either in a positive or negative way it depends on the mood the child was found, so everything as they always say depend on parental upbringing so please i do not want fingers pointed at my house because you children did something wrong in public please and please baba will plead with his children.