Im a girl really?

Time skip 3 years: My new name in this life is actually Lilliana Karbold I go by Lilly though that's right I was reborn a girl. I have Silver hare with one section that is black and half black half white cat ears and look more like my mother but i have deep silver eyes. The first year and a half where a pain i couldn't understand what people around me where saying but I gradually pieced it together. I figured out that my parents were both from noble families My mother was the daughter of a viscount while my father was the son of a Earl he gained the title when his father died in the last war a few years before i was born. In the three years since i have been reborn I found out that there is magic in my new life all kinds of sentient beings too my father is human my mother is demi human there are also the demons, the avians, the dwarves, elves, spirits, celestials they kind of look like angles but they don't serve directly under a god so not what i knew as angles but I hear they are all pretty, and supposedly there is a race that all the others pushed back in the last war but i have Yet to see them called the foulbreed. I have asked my father who they where when he brought them up in a story he told me before bed one day but he told me he would tell me when im older. But those are the races that live in this country and other than a few battles breaking out between nobles it is a nice world. My mother called us to the kitchen to tell us something so me and father are on our way there now I just hope she hasn't found out that I snuck into the kitchen to sneak out to eat snacks after bedtime. When we arrived in the kitchen she tells us one of the other nobles is going to be paying us a visit in a week and that we have to be on our best behavior. When she tells us that i can only guess it's a higher ranking noble. I don't want to have to sit still and watch what I say but i don't want to make mother angry that is scary she made father sleep on the floor for a weak last time he made her mad.