Touch

It isn't only physical touch that is important but tocuhing one's heeat, mind and soul. Holding hands, hugging, cuddling and exploring your partner's body is the best expression of love for our special someone. After kissing we use our hands to touch our love's face, cheek, neck, hair, shoulder, chest and breasts, navel, stomach, private part, waist, leg and foot. We love him/her when we touch their body and same goes if they touch us too. Kissing and licking our love's body parts is also one way of touching him/her. And it is the best expression of desiring your partner same as when you bite and give him/her a mark which is called hickey. A mark to show others that we own our partner and that we are the only one who could have him/her and no one else could.

Touch sends a signal that we care, protect and love someone. Sometimes even in a slap or a grip we can also express our affection aggresively to let our partner see that we want to dominate him/her. But usually as women, we tend to be the more modest and demure. However, we also like to be queen of our bed and be on top to grind for our love.

Cupping our breasts by our partner is the most awesome feeling ever. Then, the LGBTQ+ community would love touch and use their fist or fingers for their partner especially to women couple relations. I don't like naming or labelling people and relationships just as calling colored people black or brown, so I call them the beautifuls. So for what they call lesbians are women couple then for gays, men couple and so on.

As a writer, I believe that words can touch people's hearts in a strking manner, possibly more powerful than physical touch especially in a long disatance relationship. I have been on Instagram for several years now and learned that oral sex and direct message sex is so excstatic that I blocked some new followers due to their explicit exposures of tehir private parts and deliberate straighforward messages about sex and the acts. I was shocked at first, but when I finally realized that there are a lot of individuals who are lonely or alone and needed someone to talk to. Using sex or their bodies to find that specail someone though a mistake, they would risk it, better than be alone or not get laid. It's sad to think that people would consider this and loose their self respect and dignity for a few minutes of pleasure. But that's reality and we all experience that deep sense of longing and do everything we can just that our needs be met. And sex is one need we all crave for because it is in our nature. It's natural and we express love, affection, romance and care through kiss, touch and sex for approval and reciprocation of that love, care and affection all together. Thus, we all hope that we get all of those feelings from one person, our crush, love or partner in life. Others couldn't wait and if the need arises they could just visit a bar or a restaurant and wait for an available soul to come around and meet that need. Beautiful or not, as long as the need for validation, feeling of existence even without the love or respect, it's more than okay. We sometimes feel that we are trapped in a society where we need to conform to norms, values and rules. But most of the times, we deviate from such norms, like for example, the church ruled out that we get married first before doing the marital act, but many couples In the world lives in and have defacto partners since they wanted to try the relationship and in the process, it's no longer sex that matters but the person we are with. And we always want our partner to be our love forever, especially when we have been togetehr for a long time, tell me if I'm wrong, but I think I'm definitely right!. Marriage is still that ultimate goal for couples, but we don't need to hurry or force our way to it if we aren't ready. Take things slow, steady and let nature tales its course. Let destiny lead you to everything we desire and whatever we ask for we shall receive in time. It will always come in its perfect timing, not too soon or later, always in that moment where we least expect him/her to happen in our life.

We get to choose our partner or love but sometimes we are destined to be with someone better or the One that fate has instructed to be with us always. I have that special someone but I hope, pray too that we will be together sooner or later, too. I hoep and pray for that someone for you too. Amen!