UNABLE TO VERIFY LOVE

<p>I'LL LOVE TO ASK A QUSTION, WHAT IS LOVE?<br/>Love simply means sharing giving out the best part of you to someone or something without a second thort, zero expectation from it or from a person you care about and feel attached or attracted to. <br/> Love is flawless, pain, laughter, priceless, patience, tears, joy, sacrifice, commitment, communication, forgiveness, trails, understanding, conflict, it's something so good to be true. <br/>Love is life and its absolutely in-evitable. We all were made from it, we live for it and sometimes die for it. <br/>HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE OR SOMETHING? <br/>Well for me, i would say its easy to find out. Once you close to an individual or a particular thing you constructed in your heart that gives you will be filled with joy. <br/>Infact at the particular instance, everything makes you happy, even things on a normal you find disguesting begins to attract you. Love is powerful, its sensational, love comes along with alot of good tidings. <br/>Now imagine falling inlove with a particular individual you lied to yourself about you been inlove and cannot leave without, doing all the crazy stuff together and spending time to discuss with suddlenly becomes a stranger to you. <br/>Everything you ever dreamt of becomes a total nightmare, you see all you've worked for or better still all youve worked for or still all your dreams crumbled. <br/>You know one thing in life is to make a decision about something and an other thing is to accomplish it. It's way more than just thinking, dreaming.e.t.c You need to work. <br/>Being betrayed by someone you could literally give anything for is life threatening. Why say so? The worst death a human can have is when you trying to let go of a particular circumstance but your heart, mind,spirit and body keeps reminding you of some certain things you had done, said, acquired or even achieved. Its so painful to an extent when betrayed by the one you love, most times what comes to your head is either suicide or hurting yourself for being to naive, gullible, easy presentable etc. <br/> But it would be stupid of you to kill yourself because of a person like you in the first place. Have you asked yourself "if it were to be them, would they die for you?<br/> If i may ask, arent you tired of pleasing the world and not yourself? Isn't it tim to take the bull by it horns? isn't it time to retrace, rewrite and reform your life? <br/>Come off it dearest, think for yourself first before any other person, because listen before you can care for someone you have to know what self love/self care is. So instead of allowing someone break you, you can as well make them. <br/>When you suffer from the storm of feelings, will you chose to start over or stop? Hmmmm!!! To suffer in feelings still have your sanity is one thing and to lose your mind is another.... <br/>You konw in life there are two categories of people living here on planet earth which are the strong and the weak...<br/> Strong people are self-willed people while weak people move along with the wind whereever the mind blows them to is where they go.. <br/> For me to move on and give life another chance is paraamount at the moment. Because one thing we need to know is that no matter how hard and how long we tend to wait for an individual who has moved on with what she/he wants to do with thier lives, the clock is ticking. <br/>While waste your own precious giving time for an individual who doesnt give a hoot about your well-BEING talk more of your life? <br/>why give someone so much previledge over your life? Too much importance to the wrong person where as someone much better is out there craving to have you as theirs... <br/>You know this things called feelings deals with ones heart, mindset and reasoning... In some cases, starting all over may just be what is needed in your life to move on and carryout your daily routine in as much so bearking down will not be visualised.<br/>If you feel the ability to stand strong and move on would be permitted by your strrength (both physically and mentallyalso emotionally) but note. <br/>You have to develop your self worth, value etc. In order not to lose again.. YES losing only takes you to a greater height, because if you dont fail once in life, you can never amount or know that theres a gearter part in life. <br/>Now meeting a person shouldnt be an issue obviously but meeting someone with extra ordinary characters,etc.<br/> One way know or realise better still when a person tends to always want to know your purpose, dreams, aspiration.etc. <br/>Just put it at the back of your mind that in a way nt really certain about it, but you're on the right track and theres along way ahead of you.<br/> One way to single a player is the type of questions, discussions and conversations you guys talk about and mostly coming out from him in a particular.<br/> When a man keeps bringing conversations of whats your favourite food, colour and all. I think its high time to dust your skirt and move to the next serious individual on the line. <br/>Most times men (in general) especially those you've had something to do with in the past can be very funny once they realize that this stupid girl with no work to do expect me to bother myself is no longer having my time, its been long i even saw a flash from her, wait....<br/>Is she now seeing someone? Here! thats where the problem begins. PROBLEM/CHALLENGE. <br/>Now he gets up, puts himself together rearrange himself because he wants to be sure that you never leave that particular position he puts you and if paraventure he finds out that indeed theres someone or an individaul betterthan him keeping you happier than you ever was with him, he begins to see how he can destroy the beautiful thing you have started enjoying.</p>