Da Near

At night Mina and her belongings were taken to her new home. Her husband awaited in anxiety with high anticipations that beamed him, he can't wait to see her, have her on his arms, receive her and take some hugs, and there she was brought forth to him.

He hastily grabbed and take hold of her hand with full of good sigh and excused everyone while he took her out to the next apartmen.

That was the beginning of TRISH'S parents love story.

They were so into each other and at the tip the marriage was successfully blessed. It was an happy beginning, good loving, tender touch, love feelings, making love at first night with the full of urges.

Starting the new routine, first time as a wife, in the House chores, in good morning daybreak, breakfast meals, first time as a husband hugs and morning kissing wife. One week topped two, one month set forth and she woke up with a fever cups and hiccups, noticing the pregnancy hops, and had a test with the tube tops and truly it was a baby norms...

She was happy and Adams so thrilled, about to be a parent, the feelings can't stop coming, they growing up and everything was beautifully breed.

More spending and gift from Adams, he pampered Mina, helped her with the chores, and spend time with her.

New challenges popped up and Mina's character changes, some attitudes surfaced, she changes in time, in the way she communicate, how she relate matters, misinterpretation and some anger mismanagement issues.

She became more aggressive, get hurt easily, became lazy, unannered, sometimes, rude and stubborn in the way she addresses issues.

Adams noticed that and assumed it was the pregnancy but it developed and increasingly got worst, so he called on her attention and informed her about the changes in her behaviors and how it's affecting him emotionally and mentally.

They both communicated on the effect of such behavior to their relationship and how terrible it seemed. "The pregnancy stressed me and I got irritated easily and got out of control. But I am sorry about that, is just a moment that forces me to be selective of the moody adventure for the sudden changes from the immunal imbalance; and I promise to manage it." She said

Adams: "I understand the condition at the moment and I will be supportive however, we are going to manage the phase together until you are put to bed."

It came into her a sudden pain at midnight just as she was holding his arms sleeping next to him, an uneasy fear gripped him as he woke up to her unrest displeasure "what is wrong with you dear?" As he readfully questioned

Mina: "take me to the Hospital I'm feeling a push."

He places her hand reverently on his shoulder and helped her up then budges to the car outside, returned inside and picked up the car keys on the chest of the table, switched off the lights, shut the door, hastily run to the car and hurries to start the car, put on the headlight and drove fast to the Hospital.

It was a baby girl and they named her Trisha (Aisha). He called the family members and informed them and all excited sending there prayers and felicitating messages.

On the naming ceremony, families and friends all turned up to celebrate with them, all kinds of baby gifts, charity giveaway unbehalf of the baby, slaughtered a Ram, and had some fun.

Responsibilities increases and changes surfaced, reality gauges and the life is not more about the roses anymore, love messages, love poems, calls and gifts, time wasting on things that are not important or necessary. It became something more.

They had to communicate over the changes and let each other understand the transitions and the management pattern and strategies to use in handling the situation. As well to get prepared and ready to mitigate the uncertainty that may evolve.

And the communication saved the relationship.

It's a year already and Trisha is walking and very smart in everything she does.

Calamity of life which usually brings awe and set a cripple to run like a cheater when death approaches, and a sea to dry even in the raining season, got them off-guard along the pavement.

Adams had an accident as his returning from work and he was rushed to the Hospital. Mina was informed and she got into confusion and anxiety, she called the family members to let them know what is going on.

Hived up with cry because she thought he was dead, but reaching the Hospital they met him lying down exhaustively harp but not as bad as they thought.

A week after he was discharged from the Hospital to continue taking treatments from home.

He lost his job some months afterward, because they had to replace him with someone due to the slow in his recovery from the surgery and injuries.

Some months later he became fine, recovered from the injuries and healed. He engaged into yoga to regained some fitness.

One night it rained and it was unexpected flood and it was serious, so he quickly moved his wife and baby to his family's House. Returning to move some of his properties he met the water had flooded the whole area and nothing left uncovered. It was Water everywhere covering every Trees and Houses.

He had to returned back to the family House with nothing. The flood had taken away everything.

Thank God for the use of Bank, there was some money in his savings accounts. He re-established and continue with a new life.

Use some money to start a business but as a startup business person with lack of experiences and knowledge towards it, then he failed to yield a positive outcome.

The wife was pregnant carrying the second child and about to deliver, and everything got worst. No money, no food, things got critical. Their house rent got expired and the Landlord was on their neck disturbing for the rent renewal, some piled up unclear bills and he got no job.

His father gave him an apartment in the family House to occupy so he returned back to the family House. Mina was heavily pregnant, stressed out and frustrated over everything but kept on the faith and prayers, hoping for a better days to come.

Moving back to the family House, some personal issues popped up between Adams family with Mina's lifestyle. Mina was an introvert and hardly associate nor engaged in conversations with people and seemed like a snub.

She was rude at some point and got stressed out easily, she hate argument and oftenly got irritated over some unnecessary issues.

It was a distressing moments for her, thus she was pregnant and about to deliver, and for that reason she avoided everyone.

Adams was helpless on how to balance the situation between his family relationship and that of his wife. He had to be careful with everyone due to some personal reasons.

He got cut-out from managing the situation properly which became deteriorating his affairs with his family and that of his wife.

So he planned to move out of the family House to enable him cushion the situation, but there was no enough funds.

One day Adams and Mina had some serious arguments and he got out of control and slapped Mina for her disrespectfulness towards him and his family, and that truly hurts their relationship.

She cried intensely, and it was really a bad moment for them. He was emotional bitterly injured and broke into crying remeniscing everything they've gone through.

After a while he kneeled down towards her to apologise over everything, begging her to forgive him and understand the situation they are into... "Baby, I'm sincerely sorry, please don't give up me because it's very hard for me inside beyond expression nor if I can shew it in any mark of bodily affections, hold it close nor do away with it. This is what the nature had thrown at us and I believe is for the good and never going to last longer and soon things will get better. Bitterly crying and telling her to understand the situation

"I wouldn't brought you here nor returned to the family House for no reason if everything was fine.

I never thought of it nor saw it coming, neither if I planned for this, but nature has it ways and God knows better and everything is not over yet, it's going to be alright if we hold on to patience, faith and tolerate the moment. We surely scaling through this phase.

I expected you to understand after so many reasoning, explanations, lessons, idea sharing, persuasions, deliberations, brainstorming, conversations, plans and every other things we've had.

You were supposed to understand and work on your attitudes and lifestyle to suites with these people, and wisely flow with them according to how they want it till we find a way out of here or figured out something better.

You should understand that we are both in this together and it is not easy right now. I surely know the frustration, but we shouldn't make it worst for ourselves by breaking the pillars we are leaning on right now.

I went out of control due to so many issues and all these evolving around us, and you are making it worst for me due to your attitudes towards me and my family at this moment.

But I am really sorry about everything, I never meant it nor ever thought of hurting you.

If I would have it all in control, heaven is your portion because you are more like an angel to me. I have been imprisoned in loving you with all I have, I will always be here and there to serve you however you want it, but you have to reason with me this time.

Dear lady, you know me very well better than everyone here and I trusted you with all of me. You knew what I was capable of doing, the energy I possessed to making you happy, how I can go out of boundaries to make sure you are happy with me.

But things changes, and I am fighting harder to see that we survived this moment and recreate a better future for us.

I love you so much and I don't know the amount.

Please forgive me and I will make it up for you."