However, Master Drummond did not need to flog or whip a sub to demonstrate his mastery. A strong arm did not prove dominance. It proved the Dom had a submissive with the ability to handle pain. He loved to spank a round, tight, perfect ass, and knew exactly how much force to use to make the sting and heat pleasurable and exciting. He had the talent to wield a variety of BDSM tools. He chose not to do so unless pressed. He was the acknowledged champion of the single-tail bullwhip. He could wield his weapon of choice maximizing pain while reducing lasting injury, a much-prized skill among BDSM enthusiasts.
However, Bear did not want a sub who loved his whip, he wanted a sub who loved his Bear.
A sub who gave his Master absolute trust, perfect obedience with reverence and grace demonstrated the Master’s true ability to dominate his submissive. A Master did not obtain submission by lavish reward or by extreme punishment. He obtained it by earning trust and inspiring love.