Zeng Shiqiang's way of getting along with othersZeng Shiqiang's way of getting along with people included the following aspects:
** 1. The attitude towards villains **
1. ** Awareness of responsibility **
- A gentleman has the responsibility to cultivate himself and others. A gentleman should not just flaunt himself, but should show it through practical actions. A gentleman was the guide of social ethos. He needed to set an example because a gentleman should bear the corresponding responsibility when he enjoyed a good reputation. If the world was in chaos, a gentleman should first review whether he had fulfilled his responsibilities, rather than just blaming the villain.
- For example, Wei Zheng in the Tang Taizong period, as a gentleman, took on the responsibility of advising others. Although he took risks, it helped to create the "Zhenguan rule". This was the embodiment of a gentleman's self-cultivation.
2. ** Refine a villain **
- Villains are eternal. You can't try to destroy, conquer, or stop them. You should try to influence them. In history, Ji Kang asked Confucius if it was feasible to kill all the villains when he ruled the country. Confucius said that killing methods should not be used because the virtue of a gentleman was like the wind, and the virtue of a villain was like grass. Wherever the wind blew, the grass would fall. Therefore, a gentleman should exert the influence of his own moral character to influence the villain.
** 2. Key Points in Interpersonal Communication **
1. ** Impression and self-restraint **
- In interpersonal relationships, a good appearance did not rely on external decoration, but on inner self-restraint. Most people would judge others based on their first impression, but one should not judge others based on their first impression alone. At the same time, one should pay attention to leaving a good first impression on others.
2. ** Dress and adapt to the occasion **
- Two suits meant that one had to choose the appropriate clothes for different occasions. It was not to pursue branded clothes or a specific number of clothes, but to be easy-going, to maintain a consistent style with everyone, and to avoid being unconventional.
3. ** Drinking and socializing **
- Three glasses of alcohol meant that one had to be easy-going. In the workplace, not drinking at all or excessive drinking was not conducive to interpersonal relationships. When drinking is necessary, drink in moderation and not excessively.
4. ** Interested in participating **
- Four rounds of mahjong meant that when the people around them had a common interest in the activity, they should participate appropriately. Mahjong here was a broad concept, such as chess, tennis, golf, and other activities. Participating in them could help one get along with others.
5. ** Make friends widely **
- The Five-Way Friendship Association advocated that people in any industry would make friends as long as they had the opportunity to interact with each other, because they did not know when they would need help from others.
6. ** Promise and persistence **
- The story of Six Leaves of Qishan inspired people to do what they promised others even if they might not be able to do it. They only asked if it should be done, and asked less if it was possible. They had to overcome setbacks with perseverance to achieve their promises.
7. ** Flattery is appropriate **
- The Seven Techniques of Flattery showed that flattery was a necessary means of interpersonal communication, but it had to be reasonable. In front of others, it is appropriate to flatter the boss to maintain his face and authority. If the boss's words are unreasonable, do not contradict him in front of him but advise him afterwards. Keep 30% of the sincere advice, that is, 70% of the taste of flattery, to avoid becoming a bootlicker.
8. ** Bragging in moderation **
- Bragging Eight pointed out that one should slightly exaggerate one's contributions, but not overly boast about one's abilities. This was because if one did not brag, others would not know what they had done. If one bragged too much, they would lose the trust of others.
9. ** Degree of effort **
- 90% effort emphasized the importance of hard work in interpersonal relationships.
10. ** Endure and tolerate **
- He needed to be very patient in interpersonal relationships, and he had to be tolerant of different people and things.
** 3. The mentality of getting along **
1. ** Stay calm **
- When interacting with others, keeping calm and not getting angry was a powerful strength. If he didn't get angry with arrogant, provocative, unreasonable, and selfish people, he could make them feel his own problems. For example, he could make the arrogant people feel bored, and the provocative people would witness his invincibility.
2. ** Things must be done slowly **
- Things will be slow, things will be smooth, people will be calm, words will be expensive. Don't rush things when you encounter them. You have to deal with them slowly to get a satisfactory solution. People of high status should ponder over their words repeatedly, strive to be accurate when speaking, and maintain a calm and gentle attitude when dealing with life and work affairs to avoid making mistakes in a hurry.
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Book of Troubled Times, Author: Ji Cha
2:"Spiritual Realm Walker", Author: Xiao Langjun
3: The Tang's Table, Author: Jie and 2
4."King of Familiars", Author: Light Spring Flowing Sound
Fairy, Please Listen to My Explanation, Author: Mi Tian Building
National Forensic Medicine, Author: Zhiniao Village
7:"Wait, Heroine." Author: Guan Guan Gongzi
8: Mantang Colorful, Author: Weird Cousin
9:"Hidden Dead Corner", Author: Get Lost
Final Divine Duty, Author: Tuoba Goudan
Beyond Time, Author: Er Gen
This Game Is Too Real by Chen Xing LL
Red Heart Sky Patrol, Author: What's the Matter?
Ring of Destiny, Author: Squid Who Loves to Dive
National Master of Ming Dynasty, Author: West Lake Encountered Rain
Choose a Day to Ascend, Author: Otaku Pig
17:"Who's in Love After Rebirth?" Author: What's Wrong?
Deep Sea Ember, Author: Yuantong
Chapter 19: Cultivation in the Chaotic World of Demonic Martial Arts, Author: Wenplagiarism
20:"Who told him to cultivate!" Author: The Whitest Crow
The following is a detailed introduction of these novels:
1."Book of Troubled Times":"Book of Troubled Times" is a fantasy Jianghu novel with time travel, martial arts, and many female protagonists. It is still being serialised. The author's writing style was not bad. It inspired people and made them think and feel from the book. This book not only had a wonderful plot and character descriptions, but it also had in-depth thoughts on society, history, and other aspects. From the moment the Vermillion Bird came into contact with the main character, his personal impression of her had declined a little. However, for book lovers who liked many female leads, it was still worth watching. The young man carried a long saber on his shoulder and hung wine on his waist. He strode forward, but the Jianghu in his heart was vaguely visible. This made people think about the meaning and value of life. Turning a page in the book of troubled times, one could see that the world had been shattered after decades of rain in the Jianghu. Such a description made one feel extremely emotional. The author Ji Cha's talent and creative ability were amazing. His works showed the style of China, and the stories of talented scholars and beautiful women were moving. All in all, Book of Troubled Times was a book worth recommending to readers who liked fantasy stories.
2."Spirit Realm Walker": It's a new sci-fi novel by the newspaper seller. Even the Almighty felt that it was a very serious new book.
3.<<The Tang's Table>> The people of the world and the affairs of the world are just the dishes on the table of the Tang people.
Although the original ingredients had the original flavor of food, Yun Chu still believed that the most delicious food still needed to be divided, cooked, and handled. The food that was finally served on the table was the food that most suited the stomach of the Tang people.
Steaming, braising, stir-frying, stewing... There were many cooking methods in the kitchen.
Whether it was Goguryeo, the Turks, Tubo, Tuyuhun, Xue Yantuo, Tiele…or even whales, tigers, sharks, and hungry wolves, the Great Tang was a furnace that could cook them all into peerless delicacies…
In addition to Li Zhi, Wu Wei, Zhangsun Wuji, Chu Suiliang, Li Ji, Cheng Yaojin, and other peerless seasonings, there would always be one thing that you would never forget, regardless of color, fragrance, or taste.
Yun Chu hoped that she would definitely have a seat at such a luxurious banquet!
Now, the delicious food had been cooked. Yun Chu laid out the napkin, picked up the deer knife, and closed her eyes. She was ready to enjoy an unprecedented feast to satisfy her hungry stomach.
4. King of Familiar: Taming Beasts
[Introduction: A new novel with clear spring water flowing. Those who like the beast-controlling novel can take a look.]
Fairy, Please Listen to My Explanation: Fairy, Please Listen to My Explanation is a wonderful novel. The story began with the protagonist transmigrating to the game world and becoming the son of the villain. However, he was kidnapped by the female protagonist, and a series of plots in which the female was strong and the male was weak unfolded. The protagonist's identity and personality were completely different from the real villain, but his tenacity and courage were impressive. The setting of the cheat also added a hint of suspense and interest to the story. The author's writing was smooth, the plot was compact, the characters were vivid, and the setting was very creative. The entire book left a deep impression on everyone. I highly recommend this book and give it five stars.
6.<National Forensic Medicine>: He's a well-known author, but since he's good at writing, we have to accept him, right?
Recently, I've been reading a series of forensic books, but there are a lot of traces and other content. The setting of the key characters is quite interesting. I suggest you read them all.
A recent work.
7:"Heroine, Wait": Work label: Wuxia original, time-traveling, multi-female lead
[Status: New]
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The main story was about the protagonist transmigrating into a martial arts world. In this world, there were two dynasties, the North and the South. There were happy grudges, martial arts, swords, and wine. In this world, the protagonist revealed his true identity step by step, met his own female friend and family, and created his own martial arts legend. The main story and side story were clear, the writing was smooth, and the fighting scenes were exciting. There were almost no poison points. It was a martial arts novel that was very worth watching.
Author introduction:
"This isn't the author's first book. I know about the author's previous books as well. They all have their own outstanding aspects, but they also have their own major flaws. The control of the rhythm and the arrangement of the plot are all very problematic. However, this new book is completely different. The author clearly recognizes his own strengths and weaknesses. In terms of setting, worldview, character background, and so on, he has made up for his shortcomings. This has allowed the overall structure of this novel to surpass the previous books." Furthermore, the shortcomings of the previous book were completely avoided, and the improvement was very obvious. If the character description of the main character at the beginning of this book was corrected, it could be said to be a divine work. He was looking forward to the subsequent performance of this book.
8."Mantang Colorful Colors":"Mantang Colorful Colors" is an outstanding novel. The author uses the prosperous Tang Dynasty as the background and presents a vivid and wonderful group of people. The beginning of the book was very attractive. The protagonist was reborn as a servant of the Du family and faced the biggest case of the Crown Prince's rebellion during the reign of Li Xuanzong. It was full of anticipation. The author's writing style was experienced, the characters were vivid, and the historical figures he created were consistent with the records in the history books. The author was good at describing the characters in detail and had his own unique understanding of history. The author's writing style was excellent. He was good at laying foreshadowing and his insight spanned thousands of miles. The plot was smooth, the rhythm was tight, and the logic was reasonable. The author's research of historical materials was also very rigorous, and the description of political schemes was even more amazing. This book's style was rigorous, and the details were exquisite. There was a small climax in three or four chapters, making it very enjoyable to read. On the whole,"Colorful Tang" was a very good historical novel. It was recommended for readers who liked historical topics.
9."Hidden Dead Corner": Have you heard of it?
If you turned on the music player in the dead of the night, put on headphones, and hid under the blanket to cover your head, listening to the single repeatedly.
If you were unlucky and opened your eyes again, you would no longer be lying on your own bed, but would enter a strange space that was completely isolated from reality.
That space…On the surface, it looked like the places we usually see, such as our bedroom, the living room, the underground garage, the bathroom, the basketball court, the construction site, etc. However, if you looked carefully, you would realize that it was different…Everything was different.
This was the experience of an ordinary person who had obtained a special ability and gradually transformed and grown in the Otherworld to reach the extreme.
10:"Final Divine Duty": 82 recommendations. I entered the pit for the mecha, but it's temporarily a world of high martial arts. It feels pretty good. The setting was rather novel. Hopefully, it was a world where Fang Xiang and the squid were combined.
"Beyond Time":"Beyond Time" is a novel about the Xianxia Wasteland. The author, Er Gen, presents a world beyond life and death with his unique creativity and grand structure. On the polluted land, the protagonist Xu Qing stood up with a steady and decisive style, showing his strength and courage. This book had a good connection with the previous work, showing the author's deep skill and grand structure. Er Gen also did a good job in portraying the characters and wording the article, giving people a deep impression. The artistic conception and wording of the whole book were very good, giving people a profound and grand Xianxia aura. I recommend it to readers who like Xianxia.
"This Game Is Too Real": I have a suite in the apocalypse.
[Description: Traversing the wasteland world, unlocking the sanctuary system. Able to summon creatures called "players" from the world before you transmigrated.]
Red Heart Sky Patrol: Red Heart Sky Patrol is an unforgettable novel. The author used a unique perspective and writing style to set the story in a world full of mystery and fantasy. With the disappearance of the demon race and the dragon race in the ancient times as the background, the story described the protagonist Jiang Wang in the new era of the Taoist calendar. Facing the predicament of the country's system reform and social unrest, he showed his perseverance and determination to pursue the truth. While the author described the story, he also integrated deep thoughts about history, society, and human nature, so that readers could not only enjoy the wonderful story, but also get inspiration and thinking. The plot of the entire book was smooth and fascinating. After reading it in one breath, one could not help but praise the author's talent and creativity. Whether it was the story in the book or the life, emotions, psychology, society, and history outside the book, Red Heart Sky Patrol could bring readers rich insights and thoughts. In short, this was a good book worth recommending.
Ring of Destiny: Squid's Four-Star Glory masterpiece.
The Mysterious World, Part Two.
In the year 1368, at the end of July, Crimson would descend from the sky.
His heart was surging, his imagination was infinite, and he waved his hand against the wind. The young man was undefeated and hot-blooded!
15:"The Great Ming State Preceptor":🌟🌟It's not okay after I get out of prison, but it's okay in the early stages)
No female lead, the protagonist's three views are okay, the author has dry goods, the main content is to see the protagonist in prison teaching the big boss to show off, for the greater Ming Dynasty? He felt that the author was still rather idealistic, so there was no one who did not criticize famous people and reduce the wisdom of the ancients. It was not awkward for the main character to act cool. After all, the author had the material, which meant the main character had it.
16:"Ascending on a Better Day":"My Disciples Want to Kill Me to Vent Their Anger"
"This year, my blessings have arrived."
"The rouge on her lips is delicious. I want to eat it again."
A xianxia drama with a unique meaning. It's about how I've been trapped for 30,000 years and how to get out of my predicament in this life!
17:"Who's in Love After Rebirth?" I haven't seen such a fresh and refined urban rebirth posturing article in a long time.
18:"Deep Sea Ember": Keyword: God's new work, Steampunk style, King of Voyage, Deep Sea
Pig's feet were trapped in the bedroom and became the captain of the ghost ship when he went out.
The captain's skill feels especially powerful
Very idealistic
It's still very short, but based on the current structure of the article, the expectations are full.
Who didn't want to have a ship that could fly up and down, operate automatically, fill up the water indefinitely, and even fight to wash the plates and sink!
The recommendation is really good
19."Gou in the Demonic Martial World to Cultivate Immortals": A new book of plagiarism. Gou Dao Changsheng + Infinite Style, not much to say, but the author was basically not bad, both quality and quantity guaranteed.
"Who told him to cultivate!" Excellent, a new book by a Dacheng period author, a must-read for fun people.
There was nothing to say about it, it was just a whole lot of work, crazy work, and it was all about imagination and work.
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