Can people with violent tendencies change?Violent people can change. For some people with violent tendencies, they should not go to the extreme to try to reduce or completely avoid conflicts with others, nor should they suppress their negative emotions when conflicts and negative events occur, because this is unrealistic. After all, people cannot completely avoid conflicts and not produce emotions. The correct direction of adjustment was to find a reasonable way to vent without hurting others and oneself after conflicts and negative emotions occurred. For example, when you are angry with someone else (such as your boyfriend), you can express your anger verbally, you can also vent your anger by crying, or you can talk to a good friend. These are all the right ways. If you feel uncomfortable finding an outlet from other people's relationships,"talking to yourself" can also play a certain role in relieving it. It is even useful to talk about your negative emotions in front of the mirror or in the air (such as "I am really angry", etc.) and let your emotions be released. However, if violence and self-harm occur at a very high frequency and you feel that it is very difficult to control yourself, it is recommended to seek the help of local psychological consultation.
From the perspective of correcting children's violent tendencies, if children were found to have violent tendencies, they could intervene from the family, school, and society. In terms of family, parents should establish the correct concept of education, avoid corporal punishment or verbal violence, set an example, and communicate with their children in a caring, respectful, and patient way, so that their children feel warmth and security. Schools and society could guide children to learn how to express their emotions correctly, such as drawing, writing a diary, confiding, and other ways to vent their emotions instead of violent behavior. Children could be encouraged to participate in team activities, establish good peer relationships, learn to deal with conflicts, and control their emotions. At the same time, through various education, children could be helped to establish correct values and make it clear that violent behavior was unacceptable. If the child has a serious tendency to violence, they also need to seek individual psychological intervention from a professional counselor.
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