The main differences are in their expressions and some minor details of personality. In the manga, Deku might seem a bit more intense, while in the anime, he's sometimes presented a bit softer.
Well, obviously Deku in two forms - the younger and the older version are the main characters. The younger Deku is the one who is still growing and learning, while the older Deku has more experience.
I really like 'A New Alliance'. In this fanfic, Momo and Lemillion team up to create a new training regime for the students at UA. It delves into their different quirks and how they can complement each other in a training environment. There are some really cool action scenes as they test out their new training ideas on each other.
As of now, Deku is very much alive in the manga. The plot hasn't reached a point where he meets such a fate. Usually, main characters like Deku have significant story arcs and aren't easily killed off.
He might cry a lot. Deku is very emotional, and being cheated on would be a very painful experience for him. He could also get angry, which is rare for him, but this situation would be so unjust that he might not be able to hold it in. He'd probably start to question his self - worth too, thinking that there was something wrong with him that made his partner cheat.