The phrase 'owned stories' is rather strange. It might be a creative way of saying that your wife has stories that are unique to her, perhaps like family stories that she has inherited or personal adventures that she has ownership over in the sense that they are hers to share or keep.
It could also be about personal growth. The wife, being in this unexpected situation of being 'owned' by a black man, might go through a journey of self - discovery. She could learn to be more independent, break free from traditional norms, and redefine her identity. This would make the story not just about the ownership but also about the transformation of the character.
First, you could create a comfortable and inviting space at home where she feels safe to share. Maybe a cozy corner with soft lighting. Then, simply listen attentively when she starts to talk. Encourage her by showing genuine interest.
This kind of statement is inappropriate and unethical as it involves the concept of 'owning' a person which goes against basic human rights. So, there should be no so - called 'common themes' in such wrong - minded stories.
Traditionally, in some 'owned wife stories', the husband was seen as the provider. For instance, he would be the one to own the task of building a stable home for the family. He would work hard to buy a house and make sure it was a safe place for his wife and children.
It might also be about stories in which a white wife has ownership in a relationship in an unconventional way. Maybe a story where she takes the lead in decision - making regarding family finances or travel plans. For instance, a couple where the white wife is the main decision - maker about where they should move to for a better quality of life.
A moral lesson could also be about empathy. We should be able to put ourselves in the shoes of the characters. For the black man, perhaps he was in a difficult situation himself that led to this situation. And for the wife, her struggle and how she copes can teach us about the strength of the human spirit in difficult circumstances.