Once upon a time, there was a girl named Lily. At work, her colleague got the promotion she thought she deserved. Lily felt disappointed at first. But she quickly realized that being jealous wouldn't help. She used her emotional intelligence to congratulate her colleague sincerely. Later, she asked her colleague for advice on how to improve. Her colleague was impressed by her maturity and they became good friends. Lily also learned a lot from her colleague and got promoted in the next round.
One key lesson could be self - control. For example, in the story where Tom dealt with Jack's mistake, Tom didn't let his anger take over. Another lesson is empathy. Like David when his friend canceled the trip, he thought about his friend's situation. And also, positive attitude. Lily showed that by congratulating her colleague instead of being bitter.
If you want to improve your EQ by reading novels, I recommend the following books:
1. " All-rounded Academic Genius in the Other World ": The main character of this novel is an academic genius. In the other world, not only does he rule over half of the world, but he also learns to communicate with others and improve his emotional intelligence.
2. " Small Choices ": This novel tells the story of three female protagonists. Through their choices and growth, it can inspire readers to improve their emotional intelligence.
3. " Everyday Prince Charming ": This is a novel about urban life. It tells how an ordinary straight man gradually improves his emotional intelligence through reading, exercising, practicing calligraphy, losing weight, and cultivating his emotional intelligence.
4. " My Boyfriend Tricks Me Every Day ": This novel tells the love story between a male and female protagonist with high EQ and IQ. Through reading, you can learn the skills of chatting and picking up girls to improve your EQ.
Please note that the novels recommended above are for reference only. The specific selection depends on personal interest and reading preferences.
There were a few novels that could be recommended, including Once Upon a Time There Was a Sword Spirit Mountain and Banished Immortal. The female lead of " Once Upon a Sword Spirit Mountain " was a funny type of character. Although she was a little coquettish, she was very strong and almost never made any mistakes. She was the number one Jindan in Nine Regions, and her 3,000 avatars were all Jindan. The male and female leads and supporting roles in this drama were very funny. There were no annoying characters. Li Chaoge, the female lead of " Banished Immortal ", was a reborn character. In her previous life, she had killed many people by hook or by crook for the throne, becoming an existence that could stop children from crying at night. After her rebirth, she had a new understanding of the way of being a ruler through investigating cases with the male protagonist. The male and female protagonists worked for the country and the people, supporting and trusting each other. There were no melodramatic conflicts. These novels all had plots where the female lead had a high EQ, so they could be recommended as novels to save EQ.
Here are some novel recommendations about taking in disciples:
1. " My Master's Disciples Are Monsters ": This novel was about a beautiful young master who had four disciples, all of whom were monsters. The story was full of fun and surprises.
2. "Douluo: Taking Disciple Bibi Dong, Ten Thousand Times Return": This novel's main character Bibi Dong and the other characters unfold a series of stories about taking disciples.
3. " Journey to the West: Master of Huaguo Mountain, Monkey Is Not Born ": This novel tells the story of the protagonist transmigrating to the world of Journey to the West and using the disciple recruitment system to continuously recruit disciples, including characters like Sun Wukong.
4. " The First Ancestral Master in History ": This novel was written by August Eagle. The male protagonist started a series of interesting stories by establishing a sect and taking in disciples.
5. " Charlotte and the Five Disciples ": This Han manga was about the Great Magician Charlotte taking in five disciples and grooming them to become outstanding Magicians.
I hope that the novels recommended above can meet your needs.
There are a few novels that can improve one's EQ:
1. " The Return Date Is Unforeseen ": This is an ancient romance novel. The protagonist is sometimes inspirational, courageous, and has a high EQ. At other times, he is arrogant, cold, and sharp-tongued. He has gone through all kinds of fates. The road of love is full of thorns. It covers all kinds of plots of hatred, love, and hatred. It is a novel that can improve one's EQ.
2. " Five Tastes of a Floating Life ": The male protagonist of this book had a low EQ and never made promises easily, but he loved the female protagonist with his heart.
3. " The Forest of Norway ": This book teaches us to forge our own " mature routine " and " emotional intelligence explosive point ", emphasizing that true self is the highest state of emotional intelligence.
4. Non-Violent Communication: This book can help improve communication skills and empathy, thus increasing emotional intelligence.
5. Thank Yourself for Your Imperfections: This book encouraged us not to feel guilty, but to constantly improve our self-cultivation so that we can be as stable as a rock.
Please note that the novels recommended above are based on the relevant information provided in the search results and may not be comprehensive or accurate.
A first responder once arrived at the scene of a car accident. There was a young girl trapped in the car, crying hysterically. Instead of just focusing on getting her out mechanically, he used his emotional intelligence. He knelt down beside the car door, made eye contact with the girl, and in a calm voice said, 'Hey, sweetie, I'm here to help you. I know it's scary, but we'll get through this together.' His calm and empathetic approach immediately soothed the girl a little, allowing him to work more effectively to free her.
There was a man who worked far from his hometown. He missed his mother dearly. One Christmas, he couldn't go back. But his mother sent him a hand - made scarf. When he received it, he felt a deep sense of warmth and love, and he realized how much his mother cared for him.
There were novels similar to "Emotional Evolution":
1: Yunhua Yao Ji, Author: Qi Zong
2."After Giving My Body to the Supervisor, I Have a Baby." Author: Xiaolou Girl 1
3."Longevity Begins from the Forbidden Technique." Author: Super Little Erha
The following is a detailed introduction of these novels:
1.<<Yunhua Yao Ji>> I am a demon exorcist that is not very popular.
However, his ability was not weak. Just when I thought that I was going to spend my life calmly slaying demons. I lost my blade.
A demon slayer losing his blade is no different from losing his life, but I found another blade.
This saber had a human-shaped saber spirit.
The following is the story of how I brought the idiotic demon servant and the human-shaped saber spirit with facial paralysis (crossed out) around the world to eliminate demons.
Why did he have to exterminate demons? It was not a matter of national hatred. It was purely a matter of profession.
This book does not cultivate immortality.
2."After I Consecrate myself to the Supervisor, I Have a Baby": A court official under one person VS a delicate beauty who hides secrets
Feng Xiao 'er had married the most treacherous official of the current dynasty. She had been scheming step by step, but he had seen through her every step.
She was originally a top-notch assassin in the martial arts world. For the sake of information, she served tea and water to the superintendent, massaging his shoulders and legs. She was pitiful and humble.
After gaining the eunuch's trust, she began to put her arms around the eunuch's shoulders and wanted to be good sisters with him.
One night, Xiao Qi pressed her against the corner of the wall and said evilly. "Woman, submit to our family. We will give you the power to be above everyone else."
"Don't mess around." She hammered his chest with her small hand.
He was even more disdainful. How could a eunuch take advantage of him?
In the end, she wanted to cry but no tears came out of her eyes.
3."Longevity begins with the extraction of forbidden techniques": Reincarnated into a high-level martial arts world, Chen Xuan activates the forbidden technique system and obtains exemption from the price of the forbidden technique.
Faced with the cruel situation, he had to extract forbidden techniques and open the path of crushing forbidden techniques!
Permanently forbidden technique, Ten Times Longevity Burning Saber Technique. The power of each slash was multiplied by ten times. The ultimate move was a normal attack!
One-time use forbidden technique, Eight Gates, Ye Kai. Who could block this kick of Ye Kai!
As he smoked, Chen Xuan realized that there was no one else who could stand shoulder to shoulder with him. He was the only one in the world!
You can read these novels on Qidian Chinese Network.
There are many books on emotional intelligence and speech. You can refer to the following popular books:
1 "Speak Likeable"-Robert Cialcini
2. EQ: Why EQ is More Important Than IQ. -Daniel Golman
3. Communicating effectively-Raymond Gust
4 Nonviolent Communication by Marshall McLuhan
The Weakness of Human Beings-Dale Kuangnegie
These books are all about emotional intelligence and speaking skills. They can help you improve your emotional intelligence and communication skills. However, it was important to note that reading books was not omnipotent. One had to practice continuously in order to improve their emotional intelligence and speaking skills.