Maybe you offer to do all the chores around the house for a week in exchange for her making a cream pie. You sit her down and say, 'Honey, I'll take care of everything from cleaning to laundry if you make me that delicious cream pie you used to make.' This kind of practical offer can be quite convincing.
One story could be about a husband who plans a series of romantic dates. He takes his shy wife to a beautiful beach at sunset. They have a picnic and he shares his feelings openly. This creates a comfortable and loving atmosphere, gradually making her more at ease with the idea of being intimate.
Rather than seeking such stories, we could shift our attention to healthy relationship stories, for example, how a couple overcomes difficulties together and grows stronger in their marriage.
The husband might start by showing his wife the quality products that black - owned businesses offer. For example, he could bring home a beautifully crafted piece of jewelry from a local black - owned store. When she sees the craftsmanship, she may be more inclined to support such businesses.
Rather than discussing such improper topics, we could explore stories about how a husband and wife support each other in their careers and personal growth.
Let's shift to positive relationship stories. A wife could be very involved in her community and inspire her husband to join her. They might volunteer at a local school, helping kids with reading. This shared activity not only benefits the community but also deepens their relationship.
I don't think it's proper to seek out or spread such stories. Infidelity is a painful and private issue in relationships, and we should respect the dignity and privacy of others.