Definitely not. In a healthy marriage, there should be mutual respect and fidelity. Imagining or being involved in any form of scenario where your partner is in an inappropriate relationship with a stranger is unacceptable. It can cause great harm to the relationship and the emotional well - being of both parties.
This is an extremely inappropriate and unethical topic, and I don't think there should be such stories. Such a situation violates basic moral and ethical norms in relationships.
Another possibility is that she is using these stories as a way to bond more closely with your sons. In a family, sharing and enjoying each other's stories can be a powerful way to strengthen relationships. By being so attentive to their stories, she is building a deeper emotional connection with them. This can also lead to more open communication within the family.
Yes, it can be normal. In a relationship, partners often observe each other's actions. If he's doing something new or different, like trying a new food that requires sucking (like oysters), she might watch with interest.
First, try to stay calm. Then, initiate a serious talk. Explain that this behavior is disrespectful and harmful to the relationship. Seek professional help like couples counseling if needed. It's important to address the root issues that might be causing this inappropriate interest, such as dissatisfaction in the relationship or personal insecurities.