It is highly abnormal. Marriage is a union based on mutual understanding, trust, and respect. Any form of request that involves such inappropriate and non - consensual behavior is a sign of a very troubled relationship. In a normal marriage, partners should communicate about positive, healthy, and respectful things, not engage in or demand actions that are clearly against social and moral norms.
First, you must immediately reject the request as it is inappropriate. Then, try to have an open and honest conversation with your wife. Explain to her that this goes against your values and the boundaries of a healthy relationship. It could be that she is influenced by something abnormal or she has some misunderstandings. If the situation persists or gets worse, seeking professional help, like relationship counseling, might be a good option. Because in a normal relationship, both parties should respect each other's dignity and boundaries.
This kind of question assumes an unhealthy dynamic. A wife's actions in a relationship are based on love, connection, and her own comfort, not an obligation to perform such acts whenever the husband desires.
I'm not sure specifically which 'first suck guys story' you are referring to. It could be a very unique or personal story within a particular group or context. Can you give more details?
It is completely unethical. Forcing any form of inappropriate or sexual behavior, even in the context of a story, violates basic principles of respect, consent, and human dignity. No one should be made to engage in any such demeaning act in any situation, real or fictional.
It might be about the first time some guys faced a situation that was not as they expected, which made them feel 'sucked'. For instance, they might have joined a club thinking it would be amazing but then found out it was full of rules and not so much fun. So the main idea could be about dashed expectations.
If this is part of some fictional or shock - value story, it's still not acceptable in proper social and moral contexts. We should focus on positive, respectful and family - friendly topics.