successful open adoption stories

Communication is a key common element. In successful open adoption stories, the adoptive families, birth families and the adoptee often communicate well. For example, they may exchange letters, emails or have face - to - face meetings. Another common element is respect. All parties respect each other's roles and boundaries. For instance, the birth family respects the adoptive family's parenting decisions while the adoptive family respects the birth family's connection to the child.

Sure. One successful open adoption story is about a couple, John and Mary. They adopted a baby girl named Lily. The birth mother, Sarah, chose an open adoption. She gets to see Lily grow up through regular visits. Lily knows who her birth mother is from a young age. This open relationship has allowed Lily to have a broader sense of family and love. There's no secrecy or confusion, and she feels special having so many people who care about her.

One horror story could be when the adoptive parents change their minds completely about the open adoption terms after the adoption is finalized. They cut off all contact between the birth parents and the child, leaving the birth parents heartbroken and the child confused as they were promised a different kind of relationship.

One inspiring story is of an adopted boy who, through open adoption, was able to meet his birth siblings. His adoptive parents encouraged these relationships. As a result, he has a large and loving family. He learned about his family's medical history which is important for his own health awareness. He has also developed strong bonds with his birth siblings, sharing interests and memories, which has made him a more well - rounded and happy person.

I know of a story where a man adopted an old horse. The horse was going to be put down because it was considered too old to be useful. But the man saw something special in it. He gave it a comfortable place to live. Now the horse is happy and enjoys gentle rides around the man's property.

Love is a crucial element. In successful adoption stories, the adoptive parents love the child unconditionally. For example, in a story I know, the parents' love helped the adopted child overcome the trauma of being separated from their birth family. Another key element is support. This can be from family, friends, or support groups. It helps the adoptive family deal with any difficulties that may arise.

Sure. One successful adoption story is about a family who adopted a child from overseas. The child was in a difficult situation in their home country. The adoptive parents went through a lot of paperwork and waiting. Once the adoption was finalized, they provided a loving home full of opportunities for the child. The child thrived in the new environment, got a great education, and now has a very bright future.

Support. The families usually offer strong support. Take the family who adopted from South Korea. They supported the child's education and personal growth, which led to the child's success in the future.

In an open adoption case, an adopted girl was able to have a relationship with her birth mother. The adoptive parents were very open - minded. They welcomed the birth mother's involvement within certain boundaries. The girl has grown up with the knowledge that she was chosen by her adoptive parents and loved by her birth mother too. This unique family dynamic has made her into a very empathetic and loving person. She has a large support network and is thriving in all aspects of her life.

Sure. There was a family who adopted a stray dog. The dog was initially very shy and scared. But with love and patience from the family, it soon became a happy and playful part of the family. It now greets everyone with a wagging tail.