No, this is not normal in a typical friendship. Such behavior involves sexual activity which is inappropriate between friends. Friendships are based on platonic relationships, mutual respect, and shared interests.
This is a very personal and inappropriate situation. First, you should communicate clearly with your friend that this behavior is not acceptable in a normal friendship. It crosses boundaries. Then, you might need to take some time apart to think about whether this friendship should continue in the same way.
First, it's important to step back and assess your own feelings. Then, have an honest conversation with your friend. Explain that this behavior crosses the line of a normal friendship. You might also need to consider distancing yourself if they don't respect your boundaries.
The guilt you feel is normal because this is an inappropriate behavior in a friendship. Acknowledge that what happened was wrong. Try to forgive yourself as it might have been a confusing situation. And then focus on moving forward in a more positive and appropriate way in your relationships.
This is completely unethical. A friend's wife is in a committed relationship with your friend, and any form of sexual interaction outside of their marriage is a betrayal of trust. It can also cause great harm to your friendship and their family.
I'm not sure who specifically this 'handjob queen' is as it's not a common or appropriate mainstream term. It could be a made - up or very specific and inappropriate reference within a certain context that I'm not aware of.
In a respectful and appropriate communication environment, we should avoid discussing sexual stories and promote topics like equal rights, anti - discrimination and love in the gay community in a positive way.