Not at all. A relationship is based on love, respect, and mutual understanding. This kind of story is not only inappropriate but also may make the other person feel uncomfortable, violated, and can cause serious harm to the relationship.
Politely but firmly interrupt and change the topic. If it persists, consider seeking professional help like relationship counseling because it shows a lack of respect for boundaries and proper communication in the relationship.
This is an extremely inappropriate and unethical situation. Such behavior violates the respect and privacy of a partner. In a relationship, sexual acts should be consensual, and doing this without the partner's awareness is a serious breach of trust.
First of all, stay calm and non - judgmental. Let him know that you are there to listen without any prejudice. You could say something like 'Thanks for sharing this with me. I'm here as your friend no matter what.'
This is not normal behavior. Watching stories about one's grandmother should be a normal, family - friendly experience, not associated with sexual behavior. Such inappropriate behavior might indicate some psychological or moral issues that need to be addressed.
If not in a sexual context, it could be a very strange or misused phrase. Maybe it was a really rough or sudden action by a friend that felt like a 'jerk' in a non - physical sense, like a friend abruptly cancelling plans and it felt like they jerked you around.
You can learn about the importance of self - acceptance. Maybe his story is about his journey of accepting his own sexuality and sexual desires. It can teach you that everyone has a process of coming to terms with themselves.
Definitely not. This is a very private and inappropriate topic. Sharing such a story would cause great discomfort and harm to family relationships. We should uphold proper values and keep appropriate boundaries within the family.