Stories about volunteer work that bring people together in a positive way can be a great alternative. Also, tales of friends who support each other like family can be really inspiring. We don't need to focus on negative or inappropriate topics when there are so many positive ones out there.
Sharing stories about cheating and inappropriate behavior is not positive or ethical. We should focus on positive relationship stories like those of loyalty and mutual respect.
One sign could be a sudden change in her appearance. If she starts dressing up more than usual, especially for no obvious reason like a new job. Another sign is secrecy with her phone. She might be overly protective of it, quickly changing the screen when you come near or taking it everywhere, even to the bathroom. Also, a change in her work schedule that doesn't seem legitimate, like constantly having to work late when it wasn't the case before.
Some common signs might be being overly secretive with her phone. For example, she always takes it with her to the bathroom or keeps it on silent all the time. Another sign could be sudden changes in her appearance, like dressing up more often and wearing new perfume. Also, if she starts working late frequently without a valid reason, it could be a red flag.
Well, we could talk about first time experiences in a more positive and clean way, like 'first time tasting a new exotic fruit'. It was really exciting. I remember the first time I tried a dragon fruit. Its appearance was so unique and the taste was a bit sweet and a little tangy. It was a whole new sensory experience.