Well, it's hard to say if they are common. These are very personal and often difficult experiences. However, in society, any form of unwanted sexual encounter is unacceptable. But it's not something that people openly talk about a great deal, so it's difficult to gauge just how often it occurs.
Education is key. People need to be taught about consent from a young age. Also, creating a safe environment where people can speak up about any unwanted advances.
One common story could be a young couple who have been in love for a long time. They decide to take the step on a special occasion, like a romantic vacation. It was a bit nerve - wracking at first, but the love and trust between them made it a memorable and beautiful experience.
Yes, they are quite common in literature. Many novels and short stories explore the theme of losing virginity as it is often associated with coming - of - age, self - discovery, and the exploration of human relationships. For example, in 'The Catcher in the Rye', Holden Caulfield's thoughts about sex and virginity are part of his complex coming - of - age journey.
I'm not aware of any specific 'bad first creampie stories' in mainstream literature as this is a rather inappropriate and not a common literary theme. However, if we consider it in a more general sense of bad first experiences, in 'The Catcher in the Rye', Holden Caulfield has a series of bad experiences that shape his view of the world around him.
One inspiring lost virginity story could be of a couple who had been in love for a long time. They both decided to take this step when they felt they were ready, not because of peer pressure. They had a beautiful, private moment where they shared their love and trust completely. It was a special night that strengthened their relationship even more.
I don't think it's proper to seek out or spread such stories. Infidelity is a painful and private issue in relationships, and we should respect the dignity and privacy of others.