You should immediately put a stop to it. Have a serious conversation with your friends and make it clear that this is inappropriate behavior. Protect your wife's privacy and dignity.
If your friends are sharing stories that seem inappropriate, you should firmly let them know that this is unacceptable behavior. You can say, 'Please respect my wife and our relationship.'
No, it's not normal at all. Your wife is not an object to be borrowed. And her stories are personal to her. If your friends did this without proper consent, it's inappropriate. You should talk to your friends and let them know that this behavior is not acceptable.
I'm not sure specifically what that story is about as it's a rather unclear title. It could potentially be about a situation where someone is spying on their friend's mom, but without more context it's hard to say for sure.
No, it is completely inappropriate. Sharing such stories violates privacy and is unethical. These are very personal and private matters that should be respected and not spread around.
There was a time when my wife was learning a new language and my friends who were fluent in that language offered to help. They would come over and have language practice sessions. It was really cool to see them interact and my wife made great progress. This not only improved her language skills but also deepened the friendship between them.
Yes, it's quite normal. It shows that she has a diverse social circle and she wants to share the experiences of her friends with you, just like she would share stories about any other friends.
You could start by inviting your wife to join some of your outings with friends. This way, she can see for herself that there's nothing to worry about. It also gives her a chance to bond with your friends.
In such a distressing situation, communication is key. Talk to your wife privately and firmly express how her actions have deeply hurt you. For your friends, if they were aware of the wrongness of their actions and still went ahead, they don't deserve your friendship. You might also consider taking some time away from the whole situation to clear your head. Think about what you truly want in life and in a relationship. It could be that you need to start anew, away from this chaos and pain, and focus on rebuilding your own self - respect and happiness.