Well, in this type of fanfiction, often the setting can play a major role. It might be set in a high - school or a small town where the 'abusive boyfriend' can more easily isolate the other character. For the 'lemon' part, it could be that the two characters have some sort of forbidden love situation that adds to the tension. And the abusive behavior might range from verbal abuse, like constantly putting the other down, to more physical threats. But again, these stories should be written in a way that doesn't glorify abuse.
One negative impact is that it can normalize abusive behavior. Readers, especially those who are young or impressionable, might start to think that such behavior is acceptable in a relationship.
One common theme is the struggle of the victim to break free. In such fanfictions, the main character often has to find the strength within themselves to escape the abusive relationship. Another theme could be the exploration of how the character ended up in such a relationship in the first place, like if they were deceived by the boyfriend's false charm initially.
First, when writing this type of fanfiction, you need to focus on the consequences of the abuse. Show how it affects the victim not just physically but also mentally. In terms of the 'lemon' aspect, use it sparingly and in a way that doesn't overshadow the main theme of the relationship being wrong. Let the victim have a support system, like a best friend or a family member who encourages them to leave. This way, you can write an engaging story without promoting abuse.
One negative impact is that it can normalize abuse in relationships. Readers, especially young and impressionable ones, might start to think that such behavior is acceptable in a relationship.
Rather than seeking out fanfictions about an abusive boyfriend like Marco, it would be better to look for positive and healthy relationship stories in fanfiction. There are many out there that can be inspiring and heart - warming.
One popular Reid (presumably from a known series) abusive boyfriend fanfiction might involve exploring the psychological aspects of such a relationship. For example, it could show how Reid, as a complex character, might initially be in denial about the abuse or try to rationalize his partner's behavior. However, this is a very dark and difficult topic to write about in fanfiction.
One sign could be excessive control. For example, if he tries to limit who you can talk to or where you can go. Another is verbal abuse, like constantly putting you down or yelling at you for no good reason. Physical abuse is the most obvious, but often starts subtly with things like grabbing too hard during an argument.
The first step is to recognize the abuse. Don't make excuses for his behavior. Once you realize it, you should seek support from your friends or family. They can provide a safe place for you.
I don't recommend fanfiction that involves abuse as it promotes negative and harmful behavior. Instead, you can look for positive gay relationship fanfictions that focus on love, respect and mutual understanding.