No, such stories are not common in mainstream literature. Most literature focuses on positive family relationships and moral teachings, and this kind of rather extreme and negative situation is not often depicted.
One story could be that a friend was misbehaving at his friend's house. His friend's mom had clearly set some rules about not running in the house. But he didn't listen and accidentally knocked over a precious vase. As a result, the friend's mom spanked him gently on the bottom to teach him a lesson.
It's not a common or healthy experience in general. In most modern parenting concepts, discipline should be done privately to protect a child's self - esteem. However, in some old - fashioned or extreme cases, it might have happened, but it's not something to be advocated.
I don't think it's appropriate for kids to be spanked by mom's friends. In most cases, discipline should be carried out by parents in a proper and legal way. If there are such stories, they might involve situations where mom's friends overstep boundaries which is not acceptable behavior.
No. Spanking by mom's friends is not a positive concept. It violates the normal family discipline model. Discipline should be the responsibility of parents or legal guardians, and others should not interfere with physical punishment without permission.
First, the child can try to talk to a trusted adult, like a grandparent or a teacher, about how they feel. Second, they can write down their emotions in a journal. Third, they should try to understand that their mom's action was wrong, and they are not to blame for their mom's bad behavior.
I once had a friend whose mom was very strict about table manners. One day when we were having dinner at their place, I started playing with my food. My friend's mom warned me, but I didn't listen. So she took me aside and gave me a light spank on my hand and then explained why it was important to respect food. It was a bit embarrassing at that time, but I learned my lesson.
No, such stories are not common at all. In most cultures, spanking by someone other than a parent is not an acceptable form of discipline. It can be seen as inappropriate and even illegal in some cases. Parents usually take on the role of disciplining their own children, and the idea of a mom's friend doing so is quite unusual.
I think these stories can be a bit uncomfortable. It's not a pleasant thought that a non - family member has to discipline in such a way. But on the other hand, if the kid was really misbehaving badly, the friend's mom might have felt it was necessary to teach them right from wrong.