The 300 Dates Of A Recently Single Woman
Dear Reader,
My name is Lola, and this isnât just a book about dating. Itâs about living.
Yes, there are dates. Hundreds, actually. Some real. Some exaggerated for comedic relief (because trauma is exhausting and humor is free). But behind every swipe, every dinner, every wild story, thereâs a woman surviving. A woman unraveling. A woman rebuilding. This is about me, my life, my heartbreaks, my hilarity, my healing. The messy, sacred chaos of it all.
Youâll meet exes (some I married, some I shouldâve blocked), friends who became family, and red flags I mistook for carnival rides. Youâll also find the truth I spent years avoidingâ about love, motherhood, neurodivergence, faith, fear, and finally choosing myself.
This isnât a self-help book, but if it helps, Iâm glad. Itâs not an advice column, but if it feels like one sometimes, thatâs okay too. Think of it more like a long, unfiltered letter from a big sister whoâs been through it and wants to make you laugh, cry, and maybe pack a spare car seat... just in case.
So settle in. Youâre not alone. Iâve got stories to tell.
With love,
Lola