I don't think it's a common experience to just casually talk about such an intimate and private situation. However, everyone's sexual experiences are different. Some might find it a part of their consensual and private sexual exploration within a relationship, but it's not something that should be shared without appropriate boundaries and respect for privacy.
Dealing with the after - feelings depends on many factors. If it was a consensual act in a loving relationship, you might feel a sense of closeness or a new level of intimacy. But if it was a situation that made you uncomfortable, you need to address that. Start by taking care of your immediate physical needs like rinsing your mouth. Emotionally, you may need to process what happened. Consider your own boundaries and values. If you're confused or having a hard time dealing with it, don't be afraid to reach out to someone you trust, like a good friend who is non - judgmental or a counselor who can offer more in - depth guidance.
In many cultures and social norms, such a situation can be considered taboo. However, in the context of sexual health and open communication, different people may have different views. Some might argue that any sexual act should be consensual and within the boundaries of a healthy relationship. But overall, it often goes against traditional values.
First, give yourself time to process. You might feel a mix of emotions like shock, guilt, or confusion. It's important to communicate with your partner if possible. If it was an accidental or unplanned situation, talking about it can help ease the discomfort. Also, try to focus on self - care, like taking a warm bath or doing something you enjoy to relax.
A great story could be the first time trying sushi. The moment the piece of sushi touches your tongue, you notice the coolness of the fish and the warmth of the rice. The combination of the fresh, raw fish, the vinegared rice, and the wasabi gives a unique and complex flavor. It's a bit of an adventure as you might be hesitant at first about eating raw fish, but then you find it's delicious.
Well, one story could be the first time going on a camping trip with a guy friend. We were both a bit clumsy at setting up the tent at first. But then we worked together, shared some laughs, and finally got it done. It was a great bonding experience as we sat around the campfire later, sharing stories and roasting marshmallows.
Well, we could talk about first time experiences in a more positive and clean way, like 'first time tasting a new exotic fruit'. It was really exciting. I remember the first time I tried a dragon fruit. Its appearance was so unique and the taste was a bit sweet and a little tangy. It was a whole new sensory experience.
Communication is key. If you both open up and share your interests, like if you both love art and you visit an art gallery together for the first time. You can talk about the paintings and sculptures, and that deep connection through shared passion can make it special. Also, being present in the moment, really listening to each other and not being distracted by phones or other things is important.