Well, 'keeping it in the family story' might imply that certain traditions, values or even tales of family achievements are preserved within the family unit. It helps in maintaining family identity and a sense of unity. The family can use these stories to teach younger generations about their roots, heritage and the things that make their family unique.
'Keeping it in the family stories' also pass on values. A family might have a story about always helping the less fortunate in the community. This value is then instilled in the younger generations as they hear the story. It becomes a characteristic of the family, something that sets them apart and gives them a strong family identity.
One implication could be the preservation of family values. It can be a way to pass on traditional ideas about relationships and intimacy within the family unit. For example, stories might teach about respect and commitment in a marital relationship.
There could also be a story of a family's musical talent being kept in the family. A family of musicians where the parents teach their children how to play various instruments. They perform together at local events. This tradition of music - making stays within the family, and they inspire each other to keep improving and sharing their musical gift with the community.
In general, if these are just fictional stories, they can be a form of creative exploration. However, if they involve non - consensual or harmful elements in the context of real - life family situations, they are unethical. In the BDSM community, ethics are of utmost importance, and any form of coercion or harm is not tolerated. So, it depends on how these stories are framed and whether they uphold ethical values.
We can start by having open family discussions. Set aside a time when family members feel comfortable to talk about relationships and sex in a general, family - appropriate way. For example, during family dinners, we can start with simple topics like how different generations met their partners.
BDSM family stories can influence family values in various ways. If the BDSM relationship is based on respect and consent, it can reinforce the value of mutual respect within the family. For example, the clear communication of boundaries in BDSM can translate to better communication about personal boundaries in a family setting. Also, if the family story involves a sense of loyalty and commitment within the BDSM relationship, it can strengthen the family's view on loyalty. However, it's important to note that these should be within the context of legal and ethical behavior.