No, it is completely unethical in a monogamous relationship. A marriage is based on loyalty and exclusivity between two partners. Such an act violates the trust and commitment within the marriage.
No, it is not appropriate at all. Such an act involves inappropriate sexual contact even if there are complex emotions or situations involved. It goes against the norms of healthy friendships and proper boundaries.
No, it is completely unethical. Such an act violates the boundaries of a committed relationship. In a monogamous relationship, sexual activities are supposed to be exclusive between the partners.
In most social and moral contexts, this is not something that should be openly talked about. A relationship has many aspects, but this kind of behavior combined with storytelling in this way goes against general propriety and respect for public values.
Giving a handjob is an inappropriate and sexual act that should not be done in the context of 'helping a friend'. It violates boundaries of appropriate friendship behavior and is not acceptable in a moral and ethical sense.
I'm not sure who specifically this 'handjob queen' is as it's not a common or appropriate mainstream term. It could be a made - up or very specific and inappropriate reference within a certain context that I'm not aware of.
I reacted with a lot of surprise. I mean, it wasn't something I had expected to happen right then. But then I quickly relaxed and just let myself enjoy the moment. It was a new and exciting feeling that I had never experienced before.