Love is so painfulHe recommended a few novels. Director Heavenly King begins by scaring the audience to tears. It was a novel written by Bun-Hit-Dog Eating Mantou. The male protagonist, Luo Wei, had transmigrated to a parallel world where horror movies were super bad. He had made many scary horror movies, such as After the Lights Off, Old Corpse in the Mountain Village, and other new movies like special shoots. Rowe was 25 years old and had established a business empire before he transmigrated. There was also Luo Xiaoqin, who was 17 years old and had a good figure and was cute.
" Dashun Xiaoli " was a historical fiction novel of a thief captain. Cen Guozhang transmigrated to the Great Shun Dynasty. If he couldn't be a plagiarist or a businessman, he would become an official. He also had to take on a mission. The author's new book, The Great Song Emperor, had been uploaded.
The Love You Ordered Has Been Delivered, Yan Cheng's modern romance novel. This was a complicated love story. The female lead, Cheng Fangyu, was a teacher at the age of 37. The male lead, Gao Shiyuan, was a poet who had a crush on her at the age of 30. There were also many supporting characters with their own characteristics.
" Since I've fallen in love with you, I won't let go." Who else could I love other than you? It was a young school novel. The love and hate between the male and female leads, and the fate of the heirs of the four major corporations changed because of the female lead.
Back to 1998, Mu Zixin's urban novel. Xu Tongdao returned to the most difficult period of his family when he was 17 years old. The story of starting from scratch had its advantages and disadvantages. It was recommended by three stars.
Love is so painfulThe pain in love was caused by many factors. From a psychological point of view, the pain in love is usually related to a sense of loss. For example, when emotional values such as trust, economic and emotional support, and respect are lost, pain may be triggered. This feeling could be subjective or objective. Moreover, subjective consciousness could affect the physiological pain.
In an intimate relationship, due to the close relationship between the two parties, the requirements for the relationship between the two parties were often high. When one party's desires were not satisfied, an aggressive mentality might appear. As the saying goes, the deeper the love, the deeper the hatred. At the same time, the more you cared about someone, the more afraid you were of losing them. The aggravation of this sense of loss would make the pain even stronger. In addition, blind love, a sense of responsibility, and the sunk cost effect in love may cause people to selectively ignore pain, but this may ultimately lead to more intense harm.
In different love experiences, such as the three love experiences of the heroine in the movie " The Tooth of Love ", they were filled with all kinds of pain, including physical pain and emotional pain. Therefore, the pain brought by love was the result of a combination of many factors.
A novel about painful loveThe following are some recommendations for ancient novels about painful love:
1. " Good Mistake ": This short heart-wrenching ancient novel is similar to the Mute Emperor. It tells the story of the protagonist being abused by a scumbag.
2. " One Night, One Day, One Life " was an early short story about the pain and regret of missing out on love.
3. " The Silk of Love ": This is a sadistic love story. The story is so exciting that it makes people cry.
4. " Where to Send Lovesickness ": This is an ancient novel with a deep sense of sadism, describing the pain and struggle the protagonist suffers in love.
Please note that the novels recommended above may only be part of the search results. There may be other novels that have not been mentioned.
Why is love so painful?There may be the following reasons for feeling pain in love:
- ** High expectations are not met **: In an intimate relationship, if one party has high expectations for the other party and the other party cannot meet them, there will be pain. This kind of expectation might seem normal to an individual, but the other party might think it was too high, which could easily lead to conflict and pain. For example, if one party wanted to receive a gift during the festival, but the other party did not, it might cause pain. Moreover, high expectations would make the other party feel pressured. They might choose to escape silently or refuse to resist, which would cause the relationship to enter a vicious cycle and further aggravate the pain.
- [Trust mentality: This mentality may bring pain to love.] (Although it was not described in detail how it caused pain, it could be inferred that this mentality had negative effects.)
- ** lack of effective communication **: In a relationship, the lack of effective communication skills is one of the factors that cause pain. For example, if they didn't know how to send or reply to each other's messages, they wouldn't be able to express themselves well and understand each other. It was easy to cause misunderstandings and contradictions, which would bring pain.
- ** Suppress yourself **: There are two common types of depression in love. One is to be silent during an argument and avoid expressing your inner feelings. This will make people feel neglected and doubt their value in the relationship. The other is to avoid conflict and admit your mistakes even if you are not convinced. The reason behind this depression was that both parties could not effectively express themselves and understand each other, which would cause problems in the relationship and lead to pain.
- [Choosing the wrong person to fall in love with: If you always fall in love with someone who doesn't like you, you will easily suffer in love.] For example, if the person you like has certain preferences (such as liking muscular men or gentle girls, etc.), and you don't meet these standards, the relationship will easily fail and cause pain.
Unrequited love, a painful novelHe recommended 'Longevity Martial Arts: Starting from Chongming Bird', a fantasy novel written by a fox. Luo Sheng had transmigrated to the world of martial arts. Although he had poor aptitude and status, he had the interface to increase his proficiency in martial arts. He could kill demons and mutated beasts to increase his lifespan and bloodline talent. He could absorb all kinds of bloodlines to obtain super powerful abilities. Many years later, he had the legend of an undying god.
Heroic Spirits of the Warring States Period, a work of Ma Muqi. The plot of a historical novel was a little complicated and bloody. The main characters had their own characteristics. The overall evaluation was rather strange. The Bookworm was worth reading.
From the Divine College's Heroic Army Company to Cultivation, a novel written by Flying Heart K. Li Changkong had transmigrated to the Divine College. Cultivating science and technology was very interesting. After activating his cheat, he rejected the Divine College and joined the Myriad Worlds Chat Group to start the path of cultivating science and technology.
" Return to the Flying Era: Starting from the Gold-Digging Nest ", urban lifestyle genre. Yang Zhen traveled back to the educated youth era. He did not have lofty ideals and only wanted to earn money to live a good life.
" Unrequited Love Stop ", a pure love novel written by Yuri Nunu. There were many elements of youth, no sadomasochism, full of sweetness, rich characters, and many romantic scenes.
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Unrequited Love, Sweet and PainfulHe recommended a few great web novels. 'Unrequited Love Ending Talisman', a pure love novel written by Yuri Nunu. There were all kinds of appearances of youth, the love you yearned for, and there was no pain, only sweetness. There were many characters that were very interesting, such as Alex, who turned into a loyal sea king, and female leads with different personalities.
Falling in Love with Me Quietly was a modern romance novel by Yue Baishu. He told the story of the headhunter and the artificial intelligence god. It was light and humorous, and full of thoughts about life. Daily warmth and fun. It was a slow and sweet favorite novel that was suitable for both young and old. It had elements such as growth and love, family career, friendship and kinship. The author was super cute.
" The History of Beauty Addict " was a modern romance novel written by He Xiao. It was a real-life love story. The female protagonist was cunning and kind, while the male protagonist was warm and affectionate. There was no transmigration and rebirth. Starting from the third year of high school, it was a story about growth, tolerance, warmth, and love.
" Endless Lovesick Wind " was an ancient romance novel about the invincible pumpkin. The protagonist and heroine were childhood sweethearts. They were warm and had good writing skills. They were recommended by a god. It was a super sweet ancient romance.
" Secret Information of Korean Entertainment ", a novel written by an urban entertainment star by Wu Xiong. Unique conversational style, using kakaotalk information to construct a story, with only the female lead, Tai Yan, and a novel theme. However, there was a tendency for the later stages to be erotic.
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How painful it is to love but not get itLoving and not being able to get it was an extremely uncomfortable emotional experience. First of all, they would fall into a conflicted state of mind. They would miss each other every day, but they knew in their hearts that this love might not work out. This kind of contradiction would make people feel lost, helpless, and even hopeless. Secondly, they would become uncomfortable in front of the person they liked. The two people who originally got along naturally would become restrained because of one party's love. For example, in the past, they could pat each other on the shoulder and call each other brothers. After they liked each other, they would have mixed feelings when they got close to each other. They did not dare to open their hearts to express their love, afraid that they would not even be friends. Moreover, people who loved but couldn't get it often could only pay attention to each other silently. They were close but couldn't have it. It was like looking at the stars in the sky that were difficult to touch. When he recalled the good things in the past, his heart would still ache. He wanted to forget them, but they became clearer and clearer. All the memories lingered in his heart. There would also be situations where they would deceive themselves and persuade themselves to let go, but it would be difficult for them to do so emotionally. They would be deeply immersed in it and unable to extricate themselves. They would constantly hurt themselves like addicted drugs. Even if she wanted to give up, she couldn't let go because of the complexity of feelings. She was afraid of strangers when she was far away, afraid of being annoyed when she was close, afraid of being indifferent when she was less, and afraid of being entangled when she was more. When the relationship ended or he didn't get a response, he would fall into a state of being harsh on himself. He had to bear all the negative emotions while forcing himself to let go.
It's really painful to love but not get itLoving someone but not being able to get them was indeed a painful emotional experience. This kind of pain was reflected in many aspects. Firstly, it was psychological contradiction and struggle. She missed each other every day, but she knew that she could not get a response. Love seemed to be destined to have no result. For example, in the feelings of middle-aged people, when they fell in love with someone they shouldn't love, the pain of not being able to love was especially deep. They were trapped in the shackles of responsibility, morality, and family. They could not help the person they loved, but it was difficult to forget each other in the martial arts world. Every time he wanted to get close, it was like searching for fragrance in a rose bush full of thorns, making his heart bleed. He wanted to see her but couldn't. Every impulse to meet her was suppressed, like a raging flood that was blocked by a dam, gathering strength in his heart.
In terms of the nature of emotions, loving someone but not getting them was also a manifestation of obsession. It was a persistent pursuit of a certain person or an ideal emotional relationship. People often couldn't let go of the person they loved in the past but couldn't get, or they were immersed in the fantasy of the ideal partner they didn't get, which would aggravate this painful feeling. However, love was not entirely negative. It could help a person grow up and make them become kinder, stronger, and more mature after experiencing such pain. Although the ending was not good, it was also an experience in life. As long as one could maintain a brave heart and be willing to let go and accept reality, they would eventually find their own love.
It's a painful sentence to love but not get itHe recommended a few novels. " Since I've fallen in love with you, I won't let go." Who else can I love other than you? It was a youthful campus genre. The female protagonist was optimistic, strong, and stubborn. She was tortured and did not give in. She secretly hid her feelings. The male protagonist was cold and heartless. He was touched by the female protagonist but used hurt to express his love. There were also other male leads who were moved by the female lead. The fate of the heirs of the four major corporations changed because of the female lead, and the plot was very interesting.
Poisoned, an ancient romance novel written by Sunset and Moon. After the female protagonist was reborn, she wanted to find a lover to live a stable life, but she fell in love with her father, who she shouldn't have loved. She thought that she had plenty of time to wait, but in the end, she was abandoned and poisoned by the poison called " love."
"Douluo: Crossing Huo Yuhao, Picking up Zhu Zhuqing", I am the light novel doujin created by that lord. The main character, Huo Yuhao, had all kinds of character settings. The new book's main character's martial soul was novel, and if the author's writing skills were good, it was worth reading.
Five Tastes of Floating Life was a novel written by Ruan Qiqi. The love between the male and female leads was very real. The life of the female lead after transmigrating had gains and losses, full of life philosophy.
If We Can Be Together, a modern romance novel written by Ye Yini. The female protagonist's love in her previous life was fruitless. In this life, she became a child bride. Let's see how she faces love and responsibility.