I'm not sure specifically as there could be many novels with this title. It might be about a character who has to let go of someone they love in order to learn to love themselves. Maybe it involves a journey of self - discovery through heartbreak.
Since I don't know the exact novel, it's hard to say. But it could have a female protagonist who is at the center of the story, and perhaps a male character who she has to lose in order to find herself.
Since I don't know the exact content of this novel, but common themes in love novels could be self - discovery. Often, through the process of falling in love, the characters learn more about themselves.
If you lose me one day, it might be because the girl is insecure and worried about you. When you answer this question, you can use some warm and comforting words to make her feel at ease. For example, you can say,"Darling, I will never let you get lost." I will always hold your hand so that you will never feel lonely and uneasy." Or you could say,"I won't let you get lost because you're important to me." I will always protect you and make you feel safe and at ease." In addition, it's also important to prove your commitment through actions, such as holding her hand at all times, caring about her life, contacting her often, and so on. These words and actions could make a girl feel loved and cared for, and at the same time, make her feel at ease.
One similar novel could be 'The Fault in Our Stars'. It also delves deep into the themes of love and loss. The characters in it experience a complex relationship filled with challenges and beautiful moments.
I'm unable to summarize the main plot precisely. But it could be that the story is centered around a person who has been so consumed in a relationship that they lose their sense of self. And through losing the relationship (losing you), they start to find and love themselves (to love me). There might be different events and interactions that lead to this realization, like conflicts with the partner, self - reflection moments, etc.
One top story could be about the inspiration behind the song. Selena might have drawn from her own personal experiences in relationships. It could be about her journey of self - discovery and growth after a difficult breakup.
I'm not sure which specific 'lose to to love me novel' you are referring to. But generally, novels like 'Pride and Prejudice' share some themes of love and relationship development. It shows how the characters' initial prejudices and misunderstandings gradually turn into love.